Babies are the center of the family, and their growth requires not only basic material needs to be met, but also the love and love of their parents. In the process of growing up, parents are often heard complaining about lack of sleep, because babies like to be "held upright" and cannot free their hands. But, you know what?Babies love to be "held upright" may mean they're smarter!In this article, we will explain why babies like to be "held vertically" and how to solve the troubles caused by "vertical hugging".
1. Unlock new perspectives
The perspective of young babies after birth is very limited, and most of the time they can only see the bare ceiling. When parents hold them upright, babies can see a whole new perspective and observe different environments and things, which is very important for their cognitive development.
Expand: A vertical hug not only allows your baby to gain new perspectives, but also enhances theirsHapticsand auditory experiences. In the process of vertical hugging, the baby can feel the parentsBody temperature, heartbeat and breathing, this intimate contact is very beneficial for your baby's sense of security and emotional development.
2. Move muscles and bones
Little babies have not yet learned to roll over, raise their heads and sit upright, and staying in bed for long periods of time is an uncomfortable experience for them. Therefore, they will express their needs by crying and begging for a vertical hug, hoping to change their posture and stretch their muscles.
Extension: In addition to stretching the muscles, holding your baby upright can also help with gas and discomfort. Especially for some babiesGastrointestinalIn uncomfortable situations, an upright hug can help relieve flatulence and reduce pain. Therefore, your baby may be looking for a vertical hug not only for comfort, but also for physical discomfort.
Babies like to be "held upright" because they want to unlock new perspectives and see different things;At the same time, a vertical hug can also help them stretch their muscles and relieve physical discomfort.
1. Pay attention to the baby's cervical spine and lower back
When the baby is not fully developed,Cervical spineand the strength of the lower back is weak, parents should pay special attention to protect their babies when holding them uprightCervical spineand lower back. You can gently support your baby's chin, or rest your baby's head on an adult's shoulder, maintaining the correct posture and not holding it for too long at a time.
Extension: In addition to vertical hugging, parents can also try to have their baby lie flat on the bed for some interactive activities. For example, pulling their little hands, singing to them, and playing some small games can bring interaction and happiness to the baby, reducing the need for vertical hugs.
2. Pay attention to a gentle attitude
Babies may be asking for a vertical hug because they are bored or need the company of their parents. Parents should maintain a gentle attitude during the vertical hug, make eye contact with the baby, explain the things around them, and interact with them. This can make your baby feel excited and satisfied, and reduce the need for vertical hugs.
3. It's not the only way to interact
Holding upright is not the only way to interact with your baby, parents can try other ways to meet their baby's needs. For example, pull the elastic band for your baby to get them on a small swing, or sing and play with them, play face-hiding games, etc. As long as your baby is comfortable and happy, they won't rely too much on vertical cuddles.
Tips for properly coping with your baby's request for an upright hug include protecting your babyCervical spineand the lower back, maintain a gentle attitude and interact with the baby, and try other ways to interact with the baby's needs.
Babies who like to be "held upright" may mean that they are more observant and know how to solve their own discomfort. As parents, we should understand the baby's needs and respond to them correctly, and don't worry too much about the upright hug that will spoil the baby. While meeting the needs of the baby, you should also pay attention to your body and energy, and arrange the time of holding the baby reasonably. The growth of a baby is a beautiful journey, and it is important to cherish this warmth and intimacy when holding the baby.