The relationship between men and women, from recognition to the establishment of a relationship, will go through an ambiguous process, which refers to an ambiguous relationship between the opposite sex, often between the state of friendship and lovers.
Some people say that the most beautiful time of love is when it is "ambiguous", because at this time, the interaction between the two people can best inspire true feelings.
Because of uncertainty, it can always make people have unlimited imagination and expectations for each other, but it is accompanied by suspicion and misunderstanding, and once it is not handled well, even friends can't do it.
Interactions between people of the opposite sex are different from other interactions, whether they intend to develop in the direction of couples or not, they must be cautious in the spirit of sincerity.
If you just treat each other as ordinary friends, then interact as ordinary friends, and if you treat each other as a couple, you must think clearly about whether you are ready to be responsible for each other before saying something.
So, you have to know,The "ambiguity" between the opposite sex starts with these 4 sentences, don't say it easily if you don't like it!
"Do you miss me?”
When a person asks you, "Do you miss me?", the answer he wants is not just a yes or no, but a temptation to you.
This sentence sounds full of intimacy, he wants to shorten the distance between you, wants to give himself a different identity, and wants to become a special person in your heart.
People who fall in love care most about whether the other party has themselves in their hearts, no matter how big or small, they hope that they can become their sweethearts, the first goal they want to share, they hope that the other party can always put themselves in their hearts.
When he asks if you miss me, he is actually quietly asking you, am I a little special in your heart?
"You're really funny".
When one of the friends of the opposite sex begins to become interested in the other, they usually express their feelings with some words of praise.
You're really funny", a phrase that tends to trigger an ambiguous relationship in the early stages.
When a person starts to find the other person interesting, they develop a sense of curiosity and exploration about the other person.
This kind of praise will gradually shorten the distance between the two parties, and will also make the other party have more imagination about their interest and favorability, thus making the relationship between two people more delicate and complex.
"What are you doing now?".”
When you like someone, once the other person is not by your side, you can't help but miss him.
If they are still in the tentative stage, even if they are excited, they don't dare to ask the other party out directly to solve their lovesickness, so sending messages and chatting has become a way for them to satisfy their thoughts.
They don't dare to bother each other openly, and they are afraid that the other party will dislike themselves and annoyance, so they only dare to use: "What are you doing now?"This sentence serves as the beginning of the story.
They know that if the other party responds enthusiastically to their words, it is probably a drama. If the other party just replied to "busy", or other indifferent words, it is obvious that this relationship is likely to be just a hot head shaved head.
"You really understand me".
You really understand me", when a person hears another person say this, there is a feeling of being understood, recognized, and thus a sense of closeness.
In real life, we will always meet such a person who seems to be able to read our minds and understand our innermost thoughts and feelings.
When we are with him, we can speak freely without fear of being misunderstood or ridiculed. The feeling of being understood, is wonderful.
It's like a long drought and a sweet shower, and a long time of sleep, we will involuntarily get close to this person and want to go further with him.
Emotional message
In this world, a lot of love is not something that can be obtained overnight.
Perhaps, you don't belong to each other at first sight, but in the process of getting along, you unconsciously develop feelings, and the behavior of getting along gradually becomes ambiguous.
When chatting, no one wants to end;When they meet, they move closer to each other;When something happens, think about the other person first. All this, in fact, is the beginning of an ambiguous relationship.
You like each other, you have already determined your intentions with each other, just a confession, take the initiative to promote your relationship, so that your love has a formal start.
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