How to look at a cliff-like breakup.
It's been a month since I broke up with my boyfriend. I can't eat, and I will spit it out when I see chat messages, which completely affects it. Work and life, the National Day holiday was a whole mental slump, I couldn't sleep in the middle of the night, and my emotions rebounded. I cry when I think about it, and I can't eat.
He told you to break up at this moment, but he just felt that he would be better off without you in the days to come.
One thing to see a person clearly, it didn't drag you for too long It's also your blessing to look at it from another angle, and you can look for your 1w possibilities.
In addition, he is silent on the surface, secretly planning to separate people like him in his heart, it is terrible Even if you continue to be together, you will never be able to see through his state, and the days are even more terrible Divide it up!
It doesn't matter if I said it earlier, it didn't affect my own life plan. But the reality,It's the job of the post owner who quit.,The house is also rented.,It's all based on the fact that she thinks she won't stay in Hangzhou for a long time.,There's already a decision to make a new destination.,Now he's messed everything up.,The job of the post owner has to find a house again.,Without his imagination about the future, there is a high probability that the post owner will still stay in Hangzhou.。 This man is really irresponsible, vicious, and very selfish, and he obtains his own convenience by interrupting other people's life plans.
Netizens commented, but I don't know anything I'm also very good to him He has time to ease down and slowly don't love me, but I don't have time His cliff-like breakup I have to accept immediately that he wants to leave me and he doesn't love me, do you know how much it hurts the other party.
This kind of cliff-like breakup hurts the party who is broken up very much, if there is a problem, communicate well, this inexplicable breakup will leave a psychological shadow on the other party, he will always fall into self-doubt "I'm not good, I'm not doing it right, am I not worthy of being loved by others", if you don't want to continue, you can generously say the reason, and you can communicate well as adults.
Obviously, in the first half an hour, they held hands together to send her back, and in the second half an hour, they said that she was tired and didn't want to talk about it, how good she was to her, and she had never quarreled.
The first love is also a cliff-like breakup, and it has never been excessive, nor has it been quarrelsome. Suddenly, one day, the front chatted as usual, and the next second was forced to accept the breakup. I was stunned, delayed for an hour, and didn't ask the reason, and I didn't keep it. Save a screenshot of the chat and delete all his contacts. I was ready to get back together in 5 years and 7 years, and in just 3 months, he took the initiative to get back together. He said, I will take a screenshot without repeating. He was also quite embarrassed, I didn't expect it to be so long, and I still kept it. I didn't communicate clearly before the breakup, saying that I liked you, saying that I was together, and that it was you who broke up, just like playing, I was not used to him. I hold a grudge.
He doesn't see me, he doesn't see me alive or dead. I said I was going to his house to pick up something, and he said he would ask his friend to wait at home. He would be in the restaurant every day (he opened himself), and I wanted to go by myself one day, but I was afraid. Because he was too resolute. What to do, he was very adamant that he couldn't see him, and I was very persistent that I must see him, and a series of airline tickets and hotels booked didn't fly. I just want to see what kind of expression will be on my face when I say change in an instantCan I go?Every place I went to, I specially selected a fridge magnet for him, and I said to give you a small gift, and he said he didn't deserve it.
Distinguish between the relationship and the person, and then choose to continue with the person in a different way, or continue your own life by changing the person. First of all, from a normal point of view, any cliff-like way is an inappropriate way to deal with feelings, rationally speaking, if the other party's character is okay, the way to deal with feelings is not appropriate, then you may need to have a stronger heart, go to the other party, and actively promote the relationship. If you decide that the other person is worthy, you may need to find yourself and practice ways and means to get along with them, so that you can also have 50% or more of the initiative to deal with emotional problems. It's a choice you still care about this person. If you judge that the other party is not worthy, the cliff will make you realize impermanence and become enlightened. Bye bye this one, the next one will be better!You are the protagonist of your own life!It is you who are good, you come to invite him to participate in your life, he goes or stays, whatever he wants. Happy and everything will be fine!