When I stood next to someone in high heels, he didn't even look at me and scolded me for why I wore high heels. His attitude hurt me so much that I tried to explain, but he didn't want to listen to my explanation, and I felt very helpless. At that time, I wore high heels to make myself look more elegant and confident. I know it's a sign of vanity, but I also want to be recognized and appreciated by others. However, his attitude made me start to doubt myself, and I began to doubt whether I was really fit to wear high heels and if I could really be recognized and appreciated by others.
When I stood in the sea of people in high heels, I began to realize that everyone has their own way of life and values, and I will not change myself because of the attitude of others. I started to show myself more confidently and I started to cherish my feelings more. I no longer wear high heels to please others, but for myself. The gaze no longer stays for him, and it is also a kind of growth. I realized that my worth does not depend on the recognition and appreciation of others, but on my own perception and evaluation of myself. I began to pay more attention to my inner world and began to appreciate my existence more.
Beginning to love yourself more is a change of heart. I realized that only I could make myself happy and satisfied. I no longer live for the gaze of others, but for my dreams and goals. I started to be more courageous to pursue my dreams and started working harder to achieve my goals. The process is painful, but it's also worth it. I stood in a sea of people in high heels, no longer living for the gaze of others, but fighting for my dreams and goals. It's my choice and it's my way of life. I know that there are many difficulties and challenges ahead, but I believe that I can overcome them all. Because I began to love myself more, I began to cherish my feelings and existence more.
Everyone has their own way of life and values, don't change yourself because of the attitude of others. Believe in your own abilities and worth, and don't deny yourself because of the evaluation of others. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams and goals, and don't give up on your dreams and goals in order to please others. Because only you can make yourself happy and satisfied, and only you can achieve your dreams and goals.