We love someone just because he has what we need, such as beauty, emotional intelligence, money, and no one loves someone who has no merits, so don't think that you love anyone, you just need him. Ordinary people talk about love, generally get.
If a person improves his own value, then there will be more and more people who need him, so there will be many people who love him, so if you want others to be inseparable from you, the best way is to enhance your value.
When your value is higher than that of your partner, you will not be afraid of your partner leaving at all, because when he leaves, we can find a better one, and he is less valuable than himself, he can only find someone worse than himself. So don't spend your time on each other, but on yourself, you are the strongest backer.
Everything exists because of value, everything is a value relationship, don't complain about who leaves, everything is normal. Destiny is in your own hands, not in someone else's hands.
We exist independently in this world, our happiness is only related to ourselves, not to others, everything is a normal relationship, and we find reasons from ourselves.
Maybe you used to like a person very much, when your value is much higher than him, you will look down on him, but look at someone who is stronger than yourself, both men and women are the same, both men and women have their own market value, and they both like to be worth higher than themselves.
So relationships are dynamic, not fixed, and always remember that fate is in your own hands.