""The secret of happiness for second-married couples is to clarify 4 questions to make marriage more satisfying"."
Introduction: Life is like a one-way journey of "just walking", and it is also a process of continuous cultivation.
Marriage is also a journey of continuous cultivation.
On the occasion of their first marriage, each couple has a good desire to carry out the marriage to the end.
However, in reality, there are always couples who walk and walk but are separated - either because of birth (i.e., divorce) or because of death (i.e., widowhood).
For those who are divorced or widowed, it becomes a desire to find a partner again on the long journey of life.
As a result, second marriage (remarriage) has become a choice that many people who have experienced divorce or widowhood have to face.
However, in order for a second marriage to move towards a happy marriage, the following key questions must be clarified. 
Questions about children.
Conflicts in remarried families often arise from children.
Once the child issue is involved, it is inevitable that the ex will be involved.
Therefore, we are faced with a problem:
If your remarriage partner frequently contacts your ex because of child issues, can you accept it?
Therefore, before remarrying, both parties should calmly and calmly discuss issues such as how often the child and the ex will meet,** and the payment of child support.
If both parties have children, it is necessary to strive to achieve a situation where "a bowl of water is even".
On these issues, positions must be expressed clearly and clearly, and they must be clear before they are discussed. 
* The reason for the end of the previous marriage.
As to why the last marriage was dissolved, the two parties must be honest with each other and cannot avoid it.
It is necessary to clarify the problem of the last marriage, what caused the conflict between the two parties to escalate to the point of irreconcilability, and finally chose to part ways.
As the saying goes, "a slap doesn't make a sound".
The breakdown of a marriage cannot be the problem of just one of the parties.
Only by finding the root cause of the "illness" in the previous marriage can we reflect, adjust and correct in the new relationship.
In particular, it is necessary to pay attention to whether the other party has major faults in the previous marriage, such as domestic violence, marital cheating, and bad behaviors such as pornography, gambling, drugs, fraud, etc.
Before remarrying, after clarifying the above questions, it is important to carefully read the other party's divorce agreement or divorce judgment.
The reasons for divorce are usually recorded in the divorce agreement or divorce decree. 
Talk about the three views and post-marriage planning, so that you can better feel whether the other party is suitable for you.
It is difficult for two people with different views and values to live in harmony, and it is even more difficult to carry out the marriage to the end.
Talk about money. Some people say that talking about money hurts feelings.
However, the author believes that not talking about money hurts feelings more.
A good marriage must involve money. Chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, money, or economic foundation are indispensable in life, which to some extent affect the relationship between husband and wife and whether the family atmosphere is harmonious.
Poor couples mourn everything, and sit idly sad.
It is impossible for two people who are not in the right household and whose economic foundations are very different to live a smooth marriage life.
Talking about money is a necessity for a good marriage and affection.
For example, how do you allocate your daily expenses after you get married?
Regarding fixed assets - real estate, vehicles, etc., should the other party's name be added?
In particular, the assets of both parties before and after the marriage should be clear and clear.
After sorting out the property relationship, no matter which of the two parties dies first in the future, the remaining people and the children of both parties will not cause disputes and disputes because of property issues.
Finally, remarriage is not a beast, as long as you are honest with each other and meet the right person at the right time, you can also live happily if you remarry.