There is a saying that when you are doing well, some people will be red-eyed, and when you are down, some people will ridicule.
To put it mildly, in this world, except for those who are particularly close to you, no one else really hopes that you will live better than her.
Everyone wants to live a life of superiority, especially knowing that you are not as good as hers, she will have a sense of superiority in her psyche.
Don't easily expose your wounds to others, not everyone will feel sorry for you when they hear that you are not having a good time, they won't, and may even say bad things about you behind your back.
I have a classmate in elementary school, her family is not good, her father committed something and went to prison, her mother remarried, her grandmother died early, and she can only rely on her grandchildren and grandchildren.
So she said that her family was not good, and prayed for more care, and at first she did get some people to take care of her, but it didn't last long.
When she repeatedly talked about her family, everyone felt that maybe she was not so miserable, but she was deliberately miserable, maybe her family was also her nonsense.
Gradually, everyone became more and more disgusted with her, and even felt that she might as well go to work-study if she had this chat time, in this world, there are people who are worse than her, and she doesn't have to deliberately sell miserable.
That's how everything is, you have to know how to do it in moderation, and if you go too far, the effect will be counterproductive.
Life is like this, I thought I really felt empathy, but I found that no one can really understand you, they won't understand your feelings.
Don't casually expose your wounds to others, when you think they will soothe your wounds, but you don't want them to rub salt on the wounds, no one really wants you to be good, maybe there will be one thing on the surface and one thing behind the scenes.
I remember at the beginning of this year, it was very difficult to find a job, my sick mother had just had surgery, and the management of her original factory asked her to go back to work, but she couldn't go to work anymore, so I discussed with the management to let me go to do chores, and the management obviously promised to do a good job.
But I remember that at that time, my heart was not very steady, I didn't like the atmosphere, my mother walked around the factory, and told her former colleagues that she was sick and might not be able to go to work again.
If it is a stranger, the first reaction is to feel sorry, and it will not be like her former colleague, first surprised, and then overjoyed, with a hint of happiness and pride.
Mom's colleagues thought that if she was sick, there would be one less person to grab money from them, but they didn't think that even if my mother was missing, there would still be someone on top.
Looking at their eyes, it makes me unhappy, I remember there is a saying that says, when others are sick, don't laugh, otherwise there will always be a day when feng shui will take turns.
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