Title Never overestimate your pillow person
Last night, a good friend said something close to her. Her cousin and her husband have been in love for 12 years, married for 5 years, and have a 3-year-old child. Her cousin's husband, who came from the countryside, is a very down-to-earth and reliable man.
She said"My cousin told me that her husband is very busy at work and that he is on the rise in his career. However, as soon as he comes home, he will definitely accompany the child to read and write, take the child out to play, and cook at home. ”
But it is such a person that has only recently revealed some of his secrets.
A young girl called her cousin **, only to learn that her cousin's husband had talked about a girlfriend who was about to be a year, and they were in a different place. Later, after the girl learned that she had been deceived, she proposed to break up, and she felt angry and didn't want to let him go like this, so she found his cousin.
And the beautiful marriage that two people have been operating for so many years also collapsed at this moment. Regardless of whether you are divorced or not, you will definitely never be able to return to your original state of mind, and it is impossible to reconcile as before.
In other words, I used to absolutely link the words responsibility and loyalty.
Of course, this is not to say that you can't trust each other, since two people are together, you must believe in each other, and if trust is missing, this relationship is not necessary. But things must be reversed, everything has a degree, in other words, you can't put this relationship, this person on an absolute level, and give absolute expectations before things happen. Otherwise, once the later development does not meet their own presets, some people will not be able to accept it at all, feel that the sky is falling, or even unable to live.
She said"My cousin told me that her husband is very busy at work and that he is on the rise in his career. However, as soon as he comes home, he will definitely accompany the child to read and write, take the child out to play, and cook at home. ”
But it is such a person that has only recently revealed some of his secrets.
A young girl called her cousin **, only to learn that her cousin's husband had talked about a girlfriend who was about to be a year, and they were in a different place. Later, after the girl learned that she had been deceived, she proposed to break up, and she felt angry and didn't want to let him go like this, so she found his cousin.
And the beautiful marriage that two people have been operating for so many years also collapsed at this moment. Regardless of whether you are divorced or not, you will definitely never be able to return to your original state of mind, and it is impossible to reconcile as before.
In other words, I used to absolutely link the words responsibility and loyalty.