Love is a matter of two people, and with a good partner, you can learn positive things;But if you are with bad people, you will be affected a lot of negative things.
In many cases, you can't just rely on momentary feelings to like a person, but combine his behavior and character in real life to screen out inappropriate people in time.
In the relationship, most of the men with the following 3 traits have a bad character, don't fall deeper and deeper.
There is no pure friendship between people of the opposite sex. If there is, it is impossible to contact them every day.
If he has a lot of *** of the opposite sex in his mobile phone and often chats with them, and even when different types of beauties often appear around him, in fact, you should be vigilant, don't believe what he said, "We are friends who have known each other for a long time", and don't think that this is a small thing.
If he has you in his heart, then he shouldn't be too close to other members of the opposite sex.
If he doesn't have you in his heart, but there are still many warblers and swallows around him, then it means that he is attentive.
A man who doesn't know how to keep a friendly distance from the opposite sex is not worth trusting, because he changes his mind too quickly.
When two people are together, the most important thing is to trust each other and not hide anything.
But if he never confesses to you when he is with you, his work income, family situation, or other life interactions, and even lies to you many times, then you should know that this person's character is problematic.
These are generally manifested in inconsistencies in speech, or in the fact that they are afraid to take you on a "field trip" to let you meet his friends.
A partner who is good at hiding from you has a big hidden danger, because you don't know when you will be cheated by him.
He will lie to you, most likely because he is afraid that he will get angry if you know something.
But if you meet a partner who often lies to you, you don't need to excuse him too much, and see his hypocrisy as soon as possible, so as not to fall deeper and deeper.
My colleague Xiaojie complained in the office some time ago, saying that her husband never let her ask about him, and at first she thought it was just that the relationship between the husband and wife was weak, and she didn't pay attention to it. But when she received a reminder later, she realized that her husband owed a lot of money outside from her.
She recalled that every time she asked her husband what he had been busy with lately, or wanted to look at his phone, he always had a secretive look, and it suddenly dawned on her.
If he hides anything from you and doesn't let you know about him, it's actually very suspicious.
If he's open and open, what's there to be afraid of letting you know?
Only when the heart is weak, he will refuse to let you know.
When you meet such a person, no matter how much you love, you have to let go. If two people can't be honest with each other, then even if they are together, the relationship can't last for a long time.
Feelings can't rely on appearance to attract a person, and many times you also need to observe his character.
With people with bad character, sooner or later you will consume yourself.
In the relationship, most of the people who are ambiguous with the opposite sex, will lie to you, and don't let you know about his affairs are most likely of bad character.
It's hard to get a good result with such a person, stop the loss as soon as possible, you deserve to meet a better person, don't fall deeper and deeper. List of high-quality authors