Kazuo Inamori said
"Walk with great people, work with reliable people, and get along with people who understand you, and you will go further. ”When interacting with people, character is very important, and it will be related to how far you can go.
Walking with people with good character is like a help on the road of life, which can better achieve you.
Associating with people with bad character is like getting stuck in a quagmire, which will pull you into the abyss.
People with bad character have the following 3 characteristics, remember not to have deep friendships.
As the saying goes:
"Good words warm three winters, bad words hurt people and cold June. ”The connection between people is often done through communication.
People who can talk can always speak to other people's hearts, making people look good and feel comfortable.
People who can't speak can always poke people's sad places and make the pain deeper and deeper.
Some people who Xi habit of speaking ill always start with "I am for your good" to pave the way for the following "bad words".
Deep down in the hearts of these people, Xi is accustomed to judging the lives of others with harsh words.
Whether it is with friends, family, or strangers, they can't help but attack each other with bad words.
The reason why they are like this is because deep down, they lack respect for others and are always Xi to evaluating others from their own perspective.
If you have a deep relationship with such a person, you will often be provoked to anger, and at worst, you will be psychologically harmed.
When a person walks in the world, if he wants to be recognized by others, he must be trustworthy as a basic requirement.
People who are not trustworthy often make a lot of promises, but never keep their promises.
Whether it's a promise at work or a promise in life, they always treat promises as child's play.
He will be Xi of agreeing to other people's requests, regardless of whether he can do it or not.
When others urge him, he always has various reasons to explain that he has not fulfilled his promises.
This kind of untrustworthy behavior not only makes people lose trust in them, but also exposes their lack of responsibility.
If you have a deep friendship with such a person, you can't avoid disappointment, and you can't avoid being disappointed.
I've heard a saying:
"If you are always grateful in your heart, your heart will be wider and wider. ”A person who always thinks about himself and never thinks about being grateful to others is destined to have a narrow path in life. Because no one would be willing to help someone who doesn't know how to learn about Entu.
I met a former colleague who was new when he first joined the company, so they took the initiative to help him a lot.
But when he completed a project, when he gave a speech, he didn't even mention anyone who helped him, but just expressed how difficult it was for him.
Everyone will naturally feel cold, but later on his project, unless it is assigned by his superiors, no one wants to cooperate with him.
People who are not grateful often ignore the help of others, always take everything for granted, and never know how to express gratitude for the kindness of others.
This ungrateful attitude not only destroys interpersonal relationships, but also affects one's own growth and development.
With such a deep friendship, you will have a feeling of "really feeding the dog", which will only make you regret not being at the beginning.
I saw this sentence in the book:
"Building a network is a process of digging a well, paying a little sweat and getting a steady stream of wealth. ”Associate with people with good character and eventually reap wealth. Associating with people with bad character will be in vain after all.
We should be wary of associating with these three types of people: those who speak ill of words, those who do not believe in their words, and those who do not know gratitude.
Not only will it cause you pain, but it will also damage your mental health and destroy your relationships.
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