The execution of the Hubei animal teacher left the whole society to think more. How can we prevent the tragedy from happening again?That is, universal sex education for children as early as possible. Otherwise, you think it's too early to educate your child, and the bad guys don't think your child is too young.
Hubei Longhui animal teacher Long Peizhu used the identity of the head teacher for many times for a long time, young girls and underage girls for five years. In his office, dormitory building and home, there are shadows of his violence against these left-behind girls, which eventually caused many people with varying degrees of mental trauma, which is simply outrageous!Such a beast is a teacher in vain, morally corrupt, and sinful, even a thousand cuts cannot wash away his sins!But after the anger, when we calm down, we realize that we can't just scold every time, but think carefully about how to prevent similar tragedies from happening again.
We usually only tell our children not to come into contact with strangers, so children do have a certain degree of caution against strangers, but they relax their vigilance against acquaintances around them. But in fact, more than 80% of ** happens between acquaintances!Some children don't know enough about their bodies, and they are even more ignorant about sex. When the tragedy happened, I thought that adults were playing games with them, and some people didn't understand what was going on until they became adults, and it turned out that it was not a game at all but a naked violation. It is often the unbearable childhood nightmare when I was a child that makes it form a huge psychological shadow and cause a trauma that can never be erased. I always feel that I am unclean, inferior, inferior, and even lose the courage to live.
So what to do?Our village accountant said that there is only one way: that is, to popularize children's sex education as soon as possible, because parents are the first teachers of children, and there are always people to teach you some things if you don't teach them. You say it's too early to teach your children about sex education, and the bad guys don't think your children are too young. Only when children fully understand their bodies can they know how to better protect themselves.
For a long time, we have been deeply imprisoned by feudal conservative thinking, which has caused some parents to be ashamed to talk about sexual perversion, because they themselves lack scientific knowledge in this area, let alone give their children correct guidance. If nothing else, how many girls in China have their first menstrual period and scared themselves into tears?I thought I had a serious illness, and when I grew up, I had to wrap a sanitary napkin in a black bag. Usually men smoke and pollute the air, and everyone doesn't think there's anything wrong, why is the normal physiological phenomenon of menstruation actually considered "very dirty" by the women themselves?Because the whole society has instilled in them from childhood to adulthood is four words: menstrual shame!This is the result of the serious lack of sex education for children in their early years, so I believe that universal sex education for children should not be delayed.
You may not believe it, but when my son was 5 years old, he heard the story of the sperm brother and the egg sister. I've never told him jokes like "children are given away by their parents." Because when he was seven years old, one day he suddenly asked me, "Dad, where did I come from?".Without saying a word, I took him directly to the Museum of Natural History. With a sound of amazement, he saw with his own eyes the whole process of human embryos from fertilized eggs to natural delivery, and I had expected this day!
Children's curiosity is very strong, and the more you are distracted and secretive, the more it will arouse his curiosity. In this era of information, if our parents can't guide him correctly and output correct knowledge to him, then he will often go astray when he finds what he wants from other channels. Now that his son is eleven years old, he knows that sex is also a science, just like physical chemistry, with no fuss. After knowing all this, he loved life and revered life even more, and knew that his mother was pregnant and gave birth in October, and his hard work became more sensible and filial.
Our village king accountant said that hell is empty, and the demons are in the world. We can't expect schools and society to protect their children, because parents are always the first responsible person for their children. We should not expect our children to meet a good teacher, a good neighbor, a good uncle, ......Hehe, because bad guys don't write on their faces!
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