Sister Cao said that she doesn't usually drink alcohol, and only drinks a few drinks to relax on specific occasionsMood。And when she was depressed or bored, drinking became a choice to relieve the boredom in her heart. She recalls that the last time she got drunk was because of her boyfriendCheatingAbandoned her, at that time she was heartbroken, disappointed in the goodness of this man, so she decided to find a better man than him and make him regret it. At times like this, drinking gives her an outlet for her anger and anger.
In my opinion, many people may have felt similar about Sister Cao's experience. When love hurts, we often choose to heal our inner wounds by drinking. Because alcohol can temporarily make us forget the pain, and let us indulge in the illusion of escape. However, all we can get after getting drunk is temporary happiness, and the real solution still requires us to face reality bravely.
Sister Qin is a person who often drinks at family dinners, and she often drinks to the point of breaking, which makes her very irritable. She worries that when she gets drunk, she will say something that shouldn't be said and let others misunderstand orLenovo。But she couldn't control herself from drinking, because she felt uncomfortable if she didn't. Once, her best friend told her about her swearing after she was drunk, which made her scared that she would say something hurtful after drinking.
In this case, we can see that Sister Qin's heart is actually out of control. She may be because of someStressOr an unpleasant experience and choose to release negative emotions by drinking. But she couldn't control herself when she was drunk, and she couldn't control herself from saying something hurtful. This tells us that when faced with problems, drinking alcohol does not solve the underlying problem, but only aggravates our inner pain.
Sister MaIt is believed that women generally do not take the initiative to drink, and they think of drinking more when they encounter unhappy or difficult things to face, as a way to relieve their sorrows. She herself encountered the predicament of her father's illness and feltStressIt's especially big because there's no one to help her make tough decisions. At this time, she felt helpless and sad, unable to sleep all night, so she wanted to get drunk as a way to escape reality and stretchMood。However, she clearly knows that getting drunk is only a momentary pleasure, and she still has to face reality after all.
SeeSister Maexperience, I am reminded of the escapist thoughts that many people have. When we encounter difficulties or faceStressMany times we unconsciously want to escape from reality and find a way to relax or let go of our emotions. And drinking alcohol has become one of the common ways. However, we should clearly understand that avoiding will not solve the problem, it will only make the problem more unmanageable, and ultimately we still need to face the reality and find a solution to the problem.
Through the answers of three women about what women want to do most when they are drunk, we can see that women's behaviors when they are drunk are diverse, but they all hide some common psychological needs behind them. Whether it is to relieve the bitterness in the heart, escape from reality, or control the uncontrolled emotions in the heart, it reflects the presence of womenStressand weakness and helplessness in the face of adversity. However, we should also be aware that drinking alcohol does not solve the problem, it only makes us forget the pain temporarily or further aggravates our predicament. In the face of difficulties, we need to learn to find more positive ways to deal with themStressto soothe the mood. Try some healthy ways to relax, such as:Exercise, yoga, listening, or reading, etc.