SocialThe progress has led toEquality between men and womenGirls are also beginning to be brave enough to confess to their lovers, even though such actions may have been considered inappropriate in the past. However, without affecting others, the girl pursues bravelyLoveIt is worthy of encouragement and affirmation. Recently, an incident in Yantai, Shandong Province has attracted the attention and comments of many netizens, a woman confessed to a male doctor on the street regardless of the eyes of others. This scene makes people sighLoveIt can make a person so brave!However, we also need to think about whether a girl's bravery will cause trouble for others.
Standing downstairs in the hospital, this brave girl shouted Dr. Feng's name and proclaimed, "Please come out, I love you!".Did you hear that?You come out. Her behavior attracted the attention of onlookers and passers-by. People stopped, curious to see who could make this girl so crazy.
According to insiders, Dr. Feng, who was called by the girl, is a ** doctor, and the girl is in hisClinicsSeen a doctor. For some reason, the girl fell in love with Dr. Feng at first sight and decided to bravely pursue her own happiness. She firmly believes that she should grasp her own happiness, and boys can confess to their beloved girls, why can't girls confess to their beloved boys?
However, the girl's brave behavior was ridiculed and criticized by some netizens and passers-by. Someone joked: "Doctor Feng, why has your medical skills been downgraded?"Treated ** disease into mental illness?"They seem to think that this girl has a mental problem after seeing a ** subject. Even a middle-aged woman passing by left with her child, muttering, "Is this person sick?""It is true that there is nothing wrong with girls being brave enough to pursue happiness, but it depends on the occasion and the situation. Judging from Dr. Feng's resume, he should already have a family and children, and in such a situation, the girl's behavior is tantamount to interfering with and hurting his family, which is not advisable.
LoveIt is a mutual affection, and only if both men and women like each other, can they let itLoveThe flowers bloom. If onlyUnrequited love, then it can only be counted as a one-sided liking. Traditionally, men will generally take the initiative to confess, pursue, and be courteous to their beloved girls, and if girls are moved, it may become a good story. And women are generally more reserved and dare not take the initiative to confess. However,SocialAs they progressed, women began to bravely pursue their own happiness. Just like this girl.
The courage of the girls deserves our appreciation, but we also have to look at the specific situation. In this case, the girl shouted Dr. Fung's name to confess, but did not take into account the feelings of others. She stood downstairs in the hospital and confessed loudly, ignoring the people and environment around her. This approach not only affected Dr. Fung's work and image, but also brought negative comments to himself.
If a girl really likes Dr. Feng, she can take other ways, such as asking if she has a wife through the side, and if so, even if she likes it, she should put itThis loveBuried in the heart. Because true love is to care about the other person and not want the other person to get hurt because of themselves. If Dr. Feng is still single, then the girl can continue to care for him, give him gifts, cook soup and food for him, etc., but be careful not to affect his work and life. In this way, you can express your love without causing trouble to others.
The courageous pursuit of happiness is what we should pursue, but it requires the right way and method. LoveIt's wonderful, but it's in pursuitLoveAt the same time, you also need to take into account the feelings of the other person and the influence of the people around you. Girls can be brave and brave enough to confess to the boy they like. However, we must also realize that love is mutual, and only when two people are heart-to-heart can we let itLoveBloom.
Courage in the pursuit of happiness does not mean being desperate, taking into account the occasion and situation to avoid causing distress and harm to others. Pay attention to the other person's feelings, although actively pursuing the other person is a way to express our love, but we also need to pay attention to the ways and methods. It is obviously not advisable to shout loudly during the other person's working hours, as this will not only affect the other person's work, but also ruin your own image. Girls can choose a more gentle and decent way, such as leaving a message or writing a letter to express their feelings. This will not only not cause trouble to others, but also let them feel your sincerity and sincerity.
In the process of pursuing happiness, we must also have a kind and considerate heart. If the other party already has a family and children, even if they love again, they must learn to let go. Respect the other person's choices and don't let your love become a tool to hurt others. If the other person is still single, then congratulations!You can be brave enough to pursue your own happiness, and you should be careful not to affect others. Be concerned about the other person, express your feelings with action and sincerity, but at the same time respect the other person's feelings and personal privacy.
It is commendable for girls to be brave in their pursuit of happiness, but it is necessary to take into account the occasion and the situation, and do it without affecting others. If this involves someone else's family and work, we should be more cautious and considerate. The courageous pursuit of happiness is wonderful, but it also needs to be done in a responsible and respectful wayLoveTruly bloom and bring true happiness and joy to each other.