Xie Lan was born in a poor family, and he never complained about the world. Both parents are sick, and it is not easy to make a living. Despite her family's financial constraints, she never complained about anything. At a young age, he learned to take charge of his own family responsibilities. 
Taking care of his younger brother and taking care of household chores are all handled one by one. On the surface, the clouds are light and the wind is light, but the heart is secretly surging with helplessness and sadness. At that time, Xie Lan was in the midst of a turbulent adolescence, and there were infinite possibilities surging in her body. I always want to spread my wings and fly high and see the vast world. She practiced a good kung fu and defeated the heroes in the city sports school to win the championship. For this hope, the family happily offered Xie Lan a book. Who knew that the good times would not last long, and an accident took away her money for practice. There was no longer a place for her in the sports school, so she had to find another way. At that time, Xie Lan was at a crossroads, and the road ahead was unclear. Although there are infinite expectations, there is no way out. She lowered her body and worked on the edges everywhere. 
There have been several times in the theater, but she still enjoys it. Although her parents were not at ease, they still couldn't bear to stop her from spreading her wings. Finally, Xie Lan broke through the layers of checkpoints with perseverance and was admitted to Beiying for further study as he wished. Although there is still a long way to go, she has already broken through the obstacles that fate has set for her. That year, Xie Lan gradually got better in her career, her acting skills became more and more mature, and she gradually transformed from a young girl to a mature woman. She originally thought that acting would be all she had in this life. Unexpectedly, an accident made her meet Shi Xiaohong, and the two restless hearts found resonance in this play. 
Shi Xiaohong is a well-known and powerful actor in the film and television industry. The two played a pair of infatuated dependents in "Yellow Earth, Blue Land". In order to run in the relationship, Shi Xiaohong always takes care of Xie Lan's every move in detail. Although Xie Lan resisted a little, she was also a little moved in her heart. In and out of the play, Shi Xiaohong treats Xie Lan with sincerity. His careful and loving actions made her perceive the temperature of love, and gradually melted the wall of Xie Lan's heart that she had built over the years. In his repeated waiting and courtship, she finally nodded and agreed to this marriage. Their love comes true from drama, sweet and complete. 
After getting married, the two are still busy with their careers. Both of them are ambitious, and Xie Lan doesn't even want children. Until the accident of that year. The trajectory of their lives has taken a subtle turn. This was unexpected by Xie Lan, but it also became the most moving stroke of their story. Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong's love met through work, and the two became married. Before marriage, Xie Lan made it clear that she didn't want to have children. At that time, she was on the rise in her career, and her children would delay her development. Coupled with her independent personality, she is so focused on acting that she has no time to take care of another child. Shi Xiaohong has nothing to say about this, she just wants to grow old with her. 
The married life is very busy because of the strong ambition of the two. Shi Xiaohong devoted herself to the film career, and Xie Lan was also running around in various crews. The love between them gradually turned from warm to peaceful. Married life is like a pool of clear water, without too many waves, but it is reassuring. The stars have changed, and in the past 12 years, their careers have also reached a new level, and Xie Lan has become a popular actress. Unexpectedly, at this moment, an accident broke Xie Lan's long-term Dink plan - she was unexpectedly pregnant. At the age of 39, she was completely unprepared for this, and she had mixed feelings when faced with a choice. But repeated persuasion by her husband and family finally shook her determination. She chose to leave this unexpected new life behind. 
After becoming pregnant, Xie Lan had mixed feelings, and she blamed herself for insisting on breaking for many years;I rejoiced in the arrival of this new life. She is determined to be a competent mother, temporarily abandon her acting career, and devote herself wholeheartedly to her life of childbirth. The joy of fish and water, Xie Lan finally chose to give birth to this unexpected child. She originally thought that she would only be accompanied by her career in this life. Now the appearance of this little life has awakened the long-dormant motherhood in her heart. It was not easy to conceive for ten months, and Xie Lan began to devote herself to the role change of expectant mother. She slowed down, withdrew from all work projects, and focused all her attention on preparing for labor. During this period, she repeatedly weighed whether she was qualified to be a qualified motherIn the end, she made up her mind that she would definitely work hard for the growth of this child. 
After giving birth, she almost forgot her career-minded self in the past. Spend all day with your children, and your eyebrows and eyes are full of love. She learned to sing nursery rhymes, knit small clothes, and try not to let her children feel a trace of discomfort from the outside world. She incarnated as a full-time nanny and teacher for her child, just for him to grow up healthy and happy. When the child was one year old, the staff repeatedly contacted Xie Lan, hoping that she would return to the film and television industry. She hesitated, but chose to continue to accompany the child. She was determined to raise him herself**. This is the best interpretation of her new identity as an unexpected mother. 
In the blink of an eye, the child is old enough to go to school. Xie Lan looked at his bouncing little figure, and his heart was mixed. I still remember the bits and pieces of my infancy, and in a blink of an eye, this little life has grown into a cheerful little boy. While the child is starting a new life, Xie Lan also plans to return to his old business. Over the years, she has temporarily left the entertainment industry and devoted herself to the role of mother. Now that the child is becoming independent, it is time for her to chase her dreams. Xie Lan began to accept some film and television invitations one after another, and slowly resumed his work. Returning to the crew, Xie Lan is still the actor who is fully dedicated. It's just that there is less anxiety and more calmness back then. These years of experience have influenced her inner world. 
Her eyes on people and things have softened, and her acting skills have also revealed a bit of compassion. Outside of work, she also finds time to spend with her children. She tries her best to participate in any big or small affairs of the child. She is the most loyal audience of children, and she is in high spirits for any performance and presentation. She often said that the happiest thing in her life is to see her children grow up happily. Sheeran's life story is legendary. She is not afraid of hardships and grows into a popular actress, meets her lover and forms a happy family. Even though she has a lot of twists on the road to marriage and childbirth, she has not given up the pursuit of beauty after all. 
We should not question any of the choices she makes at different stages. In the face of an unexpected pregnancy, she would rather give up her career than raise this new life**, this selfless maternal love is worthy of praise. Every experience in life shapes us, and she becomes wiser and more transparent because of it. Now that the children are getting older, Xie Lan is also returning to his old business. We sincerely wish her a fruitful career and family, and live a wonderful life of her own. At the same time, I also hope that more women can be like her, still move forward in the face of problems, and finally turn decay into magic.