Chinese culture has a long history in China, and has accumulated many valuable treasures, including many exquisite things. Even ordinary objects have a unique meaning and exquisiteness. As the saying goes, "If you don't give away four things, your children and grandchildren will be rich", this sentence contains a profound truth. So what are the four items?Actually, the meaning of giving a gift is different in different situations. Let's take a look!
The first type of item that is not suitable for giving to someone else is baby products. This is mainly due to the fact that baby products were considered more important in the past, and people also have superstitious traditions about them. Therefore, in general, we do not easily give used baby products to others, even the children of relatives. If you want to give such a gift, you must also get the consent of the other party. Some people may wonder why baby products are so particularActually, there's some learning in that. First of all, giving baby products and giving gifts in general have different meanings. While both cases are gifts, giving baby products represents a different meaning. Giving a general gift, on the other hand, expresses blessings and gratitude. Therefore, when giving gifts, we usually choose some commemorative gifts, such as photo albums or baby shoes. But if we are sending baby products, we may feel embarrassed because it is very likely that these things were not prepared in advance. So if we want to give a gift to someone else's child, it's best not to give baby products casually.
We usually think of well-branded, beautifully designed clothing, toys, etc., but in reality, there are some things that must be carefully considered when giving gifts. At the same time, it is also important to respect the wishes of parents when giving baby products, after all, they have a better understanding of their children's needs.
The next inappropriate item is second-hand clothing, especially for children. There are two reasons for this: one is that the child's clothes are relatively small and may not be suitable for the other person's size;The second is that children's clothes usually have a certain amount of wear and tear and look old. Both of these reasons make sense. So, if your child's clothes are worn, there is no need to give them to someone else. But it's different for adults, who are more aesthetically pleasing and personalized, so children's clothing is comparatively more popular. Although some of the clothing is worn, for adults, as long as the clothing is of good quality, they will still wear it. In addition, children's clothing is usually purchased in stores or online, so the quality is ***. Although there is a second-hand clothing market in some places now, it is not easy to find good clothes that fit. Therefore, when adults buy clothes for their children, they usually choose the most moderate and beautiful styles. Even if the clothes are a little worn, adults still feel that it is worth keeping and continuing to wear. Therefore, old clothes are not suitable for giving to relatives and friends who are not very familiar. For children, they also care about the clothes they wear. For example, if you buy your child new clothes, he will happily show off his happiness with other children. But if he knows it's old clothes worn by someone else, he might feel lost. Over time, the child may feel that he is not being noticed and valued, and thus become depressed and unhappy. Therefore, it is not suitable to give old clothes to children.
For women, jewelry is a very important item. If you want to give it to a woman, be sure to choose the right gift. In general, we should not give away women's jewelry casually. Why?Because not all women like to wear jewelry, some people may find it troublesome to wear jewelry or be sensitive to certain materials. Another point is that everyone's aesthetic views are different, and some women may prefer a minimalist style, while others prefer flashy designs. Therefore, when gifting women's jewelry, we need to consider the preferences and personality of the other person. If we don't know enough about the other person, it's better to choose other gifts that are more suitable, such as cosmetics, perfumes or a bouquet of flowers. This makes it easier to express our concern and blessings.
The last items that are not suitable for delivery are fragile porcelain and glassware. These items are usually very delicate and fragile, and can be easily broken. If we are not sure that the other person likes these kinds of items, or if the other person has children or pets and the environment at home is more complicated, then it is better to choose other gifts. Porcelain and glass have a unique symbolic meaning when giving gifts, representing purity and good wishes. However, if the porcelain or glass we give away is broken, it will not only lose its original beauty, but also lose its original hope and blessing. Therefore, to avoid this embarrassment, it is best to choose something more sturdy and practical, such as books, household items, or daily necessities. In this way, we can not only meet the needs of the other person, but also show our hearts and blessings.
To sum up, we need to consider the preferences and needs of the other person when giving gifts, and respect the wishes of the other person. At the same time, it is also necessary to choose the right item according to the meaning and symbolism of the gift. By choosing the right gifts, we are better able to express our hearts, send warmth and blessings, and make people feel respected and cared for.