Sometimes, I suddenly doubt myself and the meaning of life.
Especially when you can't see results after years of work or hobbies;Or because you are carried forward by life and can't stick to your dreams, you will suddenly start to doubt everything.
But when I finished reading this collection of essays titled "Fireworks to the Stars, All Wishes Come True", the flame in my heart was rekindled. Life is always bitter, but it is precisely with those bitterness that the meaning of sweetness can be revealed. Isn't what people want all their lives for the sweetness after the bitterness?
The author of this book, Lin Tete, whose real name is Yang Ying. Graduated from the Institute of Qing History of Chinese University, master's degree in history, signed writer of Beijing Writers Association, published many works such as "Lishui Bridge North".
In one of her essays, she wrote: "Years ago, I wanted to publish a work under the pseudonym of Lint, and now it has finally come true. Just like her particular pen name, her writing is unique and infectious.
This work is a collection of her essays. It contains the feelings of every day of her hard-working life that is worth recording, which is the process of her growth and the gradual maturity of her soul.
The four chapters of the book are like unfolding four life scenes, including memories of youth, nostalgia for hometown, records of one's own soul and experience, and perception of life. It's like a confidant sister who has entered society and the workplace first, and uses her story to pass on her life experience to you, which is very heartwarming.
Whether it is those difficult moments of hard work for dreams or touching small blessings in trivial life, they will become a beautiful scenery in our lives.
On the road of life, every step counts. Those losses will become the motivation to move forward;And those moments of light will also illuminate the way forward.
She told those girls with dreams that as long as you chase your dreams with your heart, live with your heart, and love with your heart, life will not treat you badly.
Perhaps because of different dreams, we will take different paths. But what we all have in common is that we all have a positive heart.
Flowers that grow towards the sun will definitely be cared for by the sun.
Specific things are done concretely, and specific problems are solved. The subtitle of each article in her book is the answer to a question, the road she has walked, the pit she has stepped on, and the answer she has found.
For example: don't waste time on emotions;Stay away from people who make you feel inferior, etc. By the end of the reading, you've learned a social skill that will keep you from being hurt.
Regarding writing, she said: input with life, output with writing. Live hard, like running hard, and the story will be secreted naturally like sweat.
Regarding growth, she said: If you don't know yourself well, you can't make a reasonable plan. When you know yourself well enough, make a plan according to your own conditions, and the rest is to execute. Don't be soft-hearted, you are your commander, you are your soldier.
Regarding the matter of anger, she said: In fact, when all negative emotions can be quantified in terms of **, times, etc., you will reduce the frequency of its occurrence as much as possible. Eliminate it, and you'll be in control of your mood, your life.
Life is a long journey, you don't know what scenery will lie ahead, which predicaments, which people, and books are a lighthouse on the unknown journey, a clear spring, a good teacher, so that you are not afraid on the way forward, there is a direction.