True love is never just words, but embodied in actions and details. In the relationship between the sexes, if a man really cares about a woman, he will definitely not be able to hide his love in his words and deeds. Generally speaking, a man has these three manifestations, which means that he has you in his heart and really cares.
1. There is an endless "desire to share".The development of feelings between men and women is a gradual process, and the key to the relationship from shallow to deep is to share their lives with each other. When a man truly loves someone, he will want to understand the other person's living conditions and take the initiative to share his daily life, so as to get closer to the relationship and warm up the relationship. In a relationship, couples who are in love tend to have frequent contact and interaction with their partners. Even if it is a little thing, he will take the initiative to share it with the other party, which is a manifestation of love. Writer Sanmao said: "If love does not fall into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not last long." "In a relationship between the sexes, a man's willingness to gossip with you and share his trivial life is actually a sign of trust and acceptance of you and a desire for you to come into his life. True love is always a trickle, and when two people get along, even if they don't speak, they will have a tacit understanding and feel comfortable and relaxed with each other.
2. Take the initiative to pay for "scarce resources" for youThere is an opinion on the Internet: "A man who spends money for you may not really love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you." This sentence is poisonous chicken soup at first glance, but the underlying logic behind it is whether a person is willing to pay his "scarce resources" for you. Why is it said: Men spending money for you are not necessarily true love?In the TV series "Thirty Only", "Sea King" Liang Zhengxian spent no less than 1 million in order to pursue Wang Manni. Liang Zhengxian has a cash flow of 400 million, which is just a drop in the bucket for him. He is willing to spend money on Wang Manni, in essence, to satisfy his own desires, to have a dewy relationship, not out of love. Money is not a scarce resource for Liang Zhengxian, so he can give it generously, but once it comes to marriage, he will firmly refuse to avoid property disputes. In a relationship, we can't generalize to judge whether a man really loves you, the key is to see whether the other party is willing to take the initiative to give"Scarce resources".。People who really love you will never weigh the pros and cons to be good to you, lest you take advantage, but know how to feel sorry for you and are afraid that they will not give enough. Zhou Guoping once said: "To love someone is actually to feel sorry for someone." When the love is deep, the potential father or mother will inevitably be involved, but the infatuation is not distressing, such love still stays in the senses, does not penetrate into the heart, and often cannot last. ”Men really take you to heart, their thoughts and words and deeds are consistent, they will love you from the bottom of their hearts, and they will pay without hesitation.
3. Incorporate you into your "life plan".Love has quality. Some people regard love as a game and just want to choose a mate for a short period of time and enjoy the romance of love;Some people know how to cherish their partners, make love last longer, and take the initiative to take responsibility. A man who really loves you, while feeling sorry for you, will definitely have a possessive desire in his heart, and hope to be with you for the rest of his life. Such a man, with a sense of responsibility in his heart, will include you in his life plan and fully respect your ideas. Love has never been something that can last a long time when a person works alone. If a man really loves you, he will inevitably plan the future with you, and two people can work together to make the relationship long-term and stable.
If a person is a rainbow, he knows it when he meets it. It's a blessing to meet someone who truly loves you. We know how to cherish it, so that we can grasp the fate and retain the blessings.