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Shi Tiesheng has such a passage in "Retreat Notes": "No matter how much you are disappointed in the opposite sex, you have no reason to be disappointed in love, because love itself is hope, and it is always a hope of life." Love is your own quality, your own heart, your own situation, and nothing to do with others. ”The meaning of the word love itself is beautiful, don't destroy its own beautiful meaning because of bad people.
Yes, the beauty of love has never changed, it is people who have been changing.
There is no tragedy in love itself, but we always think that it must have an end. Actually, no, love will not have results, or waiting is the result;There will be no tragedy in love, only people will have tragedy.
Love is higher than marriage, and marriage is sometimes an accessory to love, but marriage is not necessarily love.
Love is always a case of eyebrows, Zhang Chang thrush can be called love, love is not disappointed, only mutual understanding, respect, deep love, understanding.
Marriage always has a bit of a worldly flavor, some are forced but helpless, and the kind of domestic violence men we know is the result of marriage, but not love.
The meaning of love itself is beyond the world, the wind and snow, the moon, and the firewood, rice, oil and salt. Love is noble and rare, that is, even if the beloved marries someone else and has children, it can always be silently guarded, it is a noble and hot ideal in the world.
When you have been in a bad relationship, you should think about whether it is your own problem. It is unfortunate to meet a bad person;But if you meet bad people all the time, you have to see if it is your own ability and discernment, so you can only attract these things.
At a young age, it is normal for love to bloom, and the ending is unsatisfactory. It's not worth it that you have to fit into this repressed value.
Sometimes I wonder if such a catastrophe is a certain fate for Tie Sheng, if he is not cruelly confined to a wheelchair, he will not be unable to walk an inch, let words replace his legs, his life is reborn and fly to the sky, it is difficult to write such a deafening text.
But he will live his life like ordinary people, ordinary and happy, and if there is a different world line, he will run up and see the world in stride.
We should not doubt love. I just don't think I'm going to meet it, that's all.
As Shi Tiesheng said, love itself is a kind of hope, a hope for mutual growth, of course, it can also be said to be a fantasy, but at least there is a thought.
He also said in the altar of earth that every moment of life should be happy, because before any disaster, the word "more" can be added.
While loving yourself, let go and give your love boldly, and learn to respect every outcome.