Mo Yan once said: "A person lives in this world, and it is the best attitude to live for those who like him." Don't lose happiness with people who don't like you, and then forget about happiness with people who like you. "
I think so. Someone who doesn't like you, no matter how actively you approach and find a way to attract, he is indifferent.
At this time, no matter how much you like it, no matter how sad you are, don't ask him again and again why he didn't look for you.
Maybe he didn't reject you directly, but the feelings of adults sometimes don't make it so clear, you have to understand its subtext, and not answering is the best answer.
You can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, someone who doesn't care about you, no matter how well you do, he will pretend not to see, not to respond, not to be responsible, not to care.
What you have to do is not take people who don't like you seriously, and don't waste your energy on people who are pretending to be asleep.
He can't give you the confidence to persevere, so you have to have the backbone to turn around and leave.
Tiptoeing for a long time will get tired, and loving someone who doesn't respond will be heartbroken.
You lost yourself for him, and you didn't live as he loved.
When you have saved up enough disappointment, you will understand: if you love the wrong person, you are destined to suffer;If you use the wrong feelings, you are destined to hurt.
You are careful to love someone who doesn't love you, and while losing yourself, you're also failing those who really care about you.
Life is not easy, don't let those who don't like you spend your life.
Everyone else is a passerby, and only you are at the helm of your own life. Losing happiness with people who don't like you is a person's greatest stupidity.
Hard work will be rewarded, hard work will improve in life, and emotionally, it is not hard work that is useful.
Love is a matter of two people after all, and one person's pursuit cannot change the happy ending.
No one can tell you when you will meet the destined one, no one can tell you what kind of person you will spend the rest of your life with, before that you have to learn to live in harmony with yourself, love is needed in life, but love is not the whole of life.
Since you can't control it, then let it be, I hope you and I know how to let go, live freely, if it backfires, please believe that there are other arrangements.