Humor, like a clever director, not only shows great charm when guiding us to communicate with others, but also flexibly shows our inner thoughts. It is like a magnet that attracts other people's minds to synchronize with ours and even makes our wishes come true. It's like the story of a high school student reported in the newspaper: he was stopped by the traffic police on the road and nervous because he didn't have a driver's license. However, he responded with humor, begging the traffic police for mercy with a grin, and offered to be punished in the form of "standing up on the ground and squatting and jumping each other". His humor not only amused the traffic police, but also saved him from punishment. This story teaches us that a humorous attitude towards life can dissolve the grievances of others and make us more mature on the road of life. 
Humorous communication requires us to use our skills flexibly depending on who we are communicating with. We need to use different humor methods in different ways to bring out the most positive meaning of humor. We need to deal with the content and proportion of speech according to factors such as the status, identity, education level, and language Xi of the communication object. In the face of different objects, we need to have different ways of humor, so that we can be more easily liked by others and grasp the initiative of communication. 
For example, for communication between elders and juniors or confidants, we can use humorous words that are more straightforward and admonishingFor communication between people who are not very familiar with each other, we need to speak tactfully and avoid using irritating words to make it easier for the other party to accept. 
In short, humor, as a communication skill, is not only to bring happiness to others, but also to achieve one's own communication purpose. In the process of communication, we need to look at the person, say the conversation, and communicating in a humorous way will no longer be a problem.