"Character determines destiny", we often hear this sentence. However, have you ever thought that this personality actually refers to your temper to a large extent?Yes, you heard it right, it's your temper. Your temper will directly affect your life, your work, and even your feelings.
Some people, their temper is short-tempered, hard-bold. They always like to compete with people, and they always like to fight to win or lose. The fate of such a person is often not too good. Their lives can be a mess, and their relationships can become strained. They may complain about why their lives are not going well, why their careers are not progressing, why their love lives are not happy. In fact, they don't realize that these problems are related to their bad temper.
On the contrary, those who have a good temper have a good life and their relationships are excellent. They are always able to deal with problems peacefully, and they are always able to face life's challenges with a peaceful mind. Like our famous general of the late Qing Dynasty, Zeng Guofan, he had a short temper when he was young, which caused his work and family life to fall into chaos. But when he realized this problem, he began to work hard to change himself, and he became gentle and peaceful by reading ancient books, meditating, and adjusting his breathing. The result?Not only did he succeed at work, but he also found a happy family life.
Therefore, a person's temper is the key to their fate. If you want to change your destiny, then first, you need to change your temper.