The Harvard Family Motto is an important book on family education, which emphasizes the importance of parents in the growth of children and how to guide and educate children correctly. Among them, an important point is: you can't educate children like this, the strong talk about persistence, and the weak talk about liking.
1. Don't just focus on your child's interests.
When educating their children, many parents tend to only focus on their children's interests, thinking that as long as the children like to do something, they can do it well. However, this type of parenting often leads to a lack of perseverance and perseverance in children, and they are prone to giving up when they encounter difficulties.
In fact, a child's interests are not necessarily what they are good at. Some children may be very interested in certain things, but may not necessarily have the ability to do them well. Therefore, when educating their children, parents should focus on cultivating their children's perseverance and perseverance, so that they can learn to persevere and work hard.
Second, don't just focus on your child's grades.
When educating their children, many parents tend to focus only on their children's grades, believing that as long as their children have good grades, they will be able to succeed. However, this type of parenting often leads to a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem, and is prone to low self-esteem.
In fact, a child's grades are not the only measure of their worth. In addition to grades, children's morality, ability, interpersonal relationships and other aspects are equally important. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should focus on cultivating their children's all-round qualities, so that they can become moral, capable and confident people.
3. Don't just focus on your child's happiness.
When educating their children, many parents tend to only focus on their children's happiness, believing that as long as their children are happy, they will be able to grow up healthily. However, this type of education often leads to a lack of responsibility and commitment on the part of children.
In fact, a child's happiness is not necessarily the driving force for their growth. Sometimes, children need to face some difficulties and challenges in order to grow and progress better. Therefore, when educating their children, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's sense of responsibility and responsibility, so that they can learn to take responsibility and face challenges.
Fourth, correctly guide and educate children.
The right way to educate should focus on cultivating children's all-round qualities and abilities, so that they can become moral, capable and confident people. Specifically, parents should do the following:
Cultivate children's perseverance: Let children learn to persevere and work hard, and not give up easily when encountering difficulties. You can develop your child's perseverance by encouraging them to participate in activities that require effort, such as sports, painting, etc.
Cultivate your child's self-confidence: Let your child recognize his strengths and values, so as to build self-confidence. You can build your child's self-confidence by encouraging them to try new things, participate in social activities, and more.
Cultivate children's sense of responsibility: Let children learn to take responsibility and face challenges. A child's sense of responsibility can be cultivated by involving them in household chores, community service, etc.
Cultivate children's sense of responsibility: Let children learn to take the initiative to take responsibility and actively solve problems. You can cultivate your child's sense of responsibility by allowing your child to participate in family decision-making and take on some household chores.
In short, the Harvard Family Motto tells us that we should not only focus on children's interests, grades and happiness, but should also focus on cultivating children's all-round qualities and abilities. The right way to educate children should be to focus on cultivating perseverance, self-confidence, sense of responsibility and responsibility. Only in this way can children become truly strong and able to persevere and succeed in the face of life's challenges and difficulties.
Harvard Family Motto tells us that the highest level of companionship is: not only to have preaching, but also to have high-quality companionship, and to persist and grow together with children.
Growing up is really hard and tiring, when the child wants to give up, you may wish to train the child to learn and Xi together, "bitter" together, and persist together. When the child has your example, the child's heart is like a mirror, and he still has the face to give up?!
Finally, I would like to recommend this Harvard Family Motto to you, and I strongly recommend that you read it to your children. This is a must-read for children to become talents, and one of the best reads for you and your children to be reborn.
Before I saw this book, I was also a Buddhist parent, and I felt that it was more important to give my child a happy childhood, and after reading it, I was woken up fiercely, and it turned out that I was very wrong - not a chicken baby, the child is sweet is the present, and the bitter is the future;Chicken baby, the child is bitter in the present, but sweet in the future!