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Ma Weidu said that if you have a complete plan for your life, if you have a goal, you will definitely achieve nothing.
When many people first hear this sentence, they must be very strange, and even question that Ma Wei is talking nonsense.
How can a planned life achieve nothing?
In our childhood education, we have been instilled with the idea that we should live a planned life.
At the student stage, we need to have a certain plan for learning, and we will be required to make a study plan and strictly follow the study plan, so as to meet the standards of a good student.
In our work, we are required by the leaders and the company to write a work plan, an annual work plan, a quarterly work plan and even a monthly work plan, and then formulate KPIs according to the plan and the degree of completion.
At the national level, there are also five-year development plans, ten-year development plans, and so on.
It seems that only after a certain amount of planning will our life not be wrong, and will it develop in the direction we expect.
This view is also in line with most of us' cognition, right?
So, what most people think is right, is it really right?
What Ma Weidu said, if you have a certain plan in life, you must achieve nothing, is it correct?
Who is Ma Weidu?
He is a collector and cultural scholar, and has the reputation of "the first collector in Beijing".Known as "Ma Ye", he is the founder and current director of the Guanfu Museum, and a former editor of the China Youth Publishing House. In 2008, he stepped onto CCTV's "Hundred Lectures" and became a well-known collector.
Regarding whether there should be a plan in life, why is it said that a planned life is destined to achieve nothing?
Ma Ye gave a very vivid example:
He gave an example from the Animal World, because there are many principles of survival in the animal world.
For example, if you are on the African savannah, you see a picture of a cheetah catching an antelope, the cheetah starts from point A, accelerates and finds the antelope at point B, and while running, the antelope keeps changing direction, and the cheetah keeps correcting itself, and finally catches the antelope at point C, the process is not complicated.
Then he went on to speak of the following complex truth:
If the cheetah has a life plan, it should plan to point C, and it will run directly to point C, waiting for the antelope to rush over, bite and eat and pull down.
This is called the life plan and goal of the cheetah.
So if it doesn't have this plan, the moment it catches the antelope and sets off from point A, it doesn't take every step right, every step is wrong, it just corrects the mistake of the previous step in the next step.
Every step of the way it corrects the mistakes of the previous one, because the antelope is constantly changing its target, its goal must not be to follow a straight line, it has taken all kinds of complex curves, so the cheetah is constantly correcting its last mistake and finally catching it.
What does this mean?
Whether it's an antelope or our life, your most important ability is the ability to correct your mistakes.
If you have a goal in life, you have such a goal, that is, in my life, in this work, I can constantly revise myself in order to adapt to the changes in this society.
Although the example given by Ma Weidu is a bit absolute, it is not unreasonable.
Our life is a journey full of uncertainties, and it is impossible to go to the end and go smoothly with a fixed plan.
Many people in life have been planning for a lifetime, but in the end, they still can't avoid poverty and family ruin.
Ma Weidu is right about one thing, for life, the more important thing is not to make a plan, but to have the ability to cope with the changes of everything.
This ability is not only reflected in the actual operation, but also in the spiritual level.
When encountering an unexpected situation that is different from the previous one, or a flying disaster, do we have a strong psychological quality of "allowing everything to happen", and then we have the ability to find a way to solve the problem.
With the ability to constantly correct mistakes, a person is truly strong.
He can accept all the accidents, unbearable and darkest moments in his life, and he has a strong heart and excellent ability, which is enough to support him to get back on track, usher in hope, and lead to success.
So, how can we have this powerful ability?
First of all, it is definitely about learning non-stop.
Learn the basic skills and qualities, improve your abilities in all aspects, and look at all the people and things around you with a changing eye.
Secondly, have a good attitude.
When encountering things, don't panic, let alone fear, we must believe that the darkness will eventually become a thing of the past, and the sun will rise tomorrow as usual, as long as you live, you can make a comeback, there is no big deal.
Although there are only a few steps in the key points of life, who can say that the next step will not be extinct?
As long as you have a good attitude and the ability to keep learning, why not be afraid of a few ups and downs in life?
Finally, it is necessary to meet better people and enter a better circle.
There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people.
Keep a humble heart and meet the wonderful people around you, whose opinions and ways of doing things can teach you a lot, break down your cognitive barriers, change your thinking, and increase your horizons.
The circle determines your level, and only by entering a better circle can you become better and stronger faster.
Whether you have a plan in life or not, the point is not this, what matters is how you treat, how you improve, and how you become stronger.
Above, and I encourage you!
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