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My name is Li Mei and I am 54 years old. My wife died of illness a few years ago, leaving me and my daughter Li Xiaohe to rely on each other. Xiaohe grew up and married her current husband Wang Leilei, the two of them have a very good relationship, Lei Lei is filial to us, I appreciate this son-in-law. The night before yesterday, Lei Lei went to a banquet to entertain customers again. This is his indispensable monthly official duties, and Xiaohe and I have become Xi to it. It's just that every time Lei Lei drinks too much, it's not like words. At about 11 o'clock that night, the doorbell suddenly rang, and I was about to go to bed. When I opened the door, it turned out to be Lei Lei standing drunk outside the door, drunk and drunk. Lei Lei muttered in his mouth, and stumbled and threw himself at me. 
Lei Lei, you look like you've drunk too much!I dodged, but he grabbed me. I understand, this stinky boy is drunk like this, and he actually treats his wife and mother as his wife!"Lei Lei, be sober!I'm Aunt Li Mei!"I pushed him hard, but a 54-year-old woman is worthy of such a big man as him!Before she finished speaking, she saw her husband holding her mother. "Wang Leilei, you brute!Let go of my mom!”
Xiaohe was annoyed and angry, and wanted to pull away from Lei Lei when he went up. "Baby, who are you?Lei Lei didn't recognize her at all, "Don't interject, my wife is here!.""Bastard thing, it's my mom!How drunk are you!Kicked by Xiaohe, Lei Lei didn't mean to let go at all, and continued to hug me and mumble. 
You stinky shameless thing!Xiaohe couldn't hold back anymore and slapped him. Xiaohe and I glanced at each other, and she blew up directly: "Wang Leilei!."Do you know what you did tonight?It's clear that I want to insult my mother!"Can you do it when you're drunk?"And pull my mom to the bedroom!Xiaohe wanted to kick him out, "You brute!."I hurriedly grabbed in front of Xiaohe, wiped my tears, and said calmly to Lei Lei: "Lei Lei, what you did tonight has completely lost your mind, we all understand that you are drunk, but even if you are drunk, you can't make such a ridiculous mistake." On behalf of myself and Xiaohe, I formally ask you to apologize to us as soon as you wake up tomorrow!After saying that, I pulled Xiaohe and turned around and went back to the room. Leaving Lei Lei alone in place. 
I chimed in, "Okay, if only you knew what you were wrong with." As long as you understand the lesson, we will forgive you this time. Xiaohe turned his face away, his face did not improve. Lei Lei stepped forward and held Xiaohe's hand, tears falling down in tears: "Xiaohe, it's all my fault, I beg you to forgive me this time." I promise never to let alcohol control myself again!I'm really sorry!Xiaohe shook off his hand and said coldly, "This time?."Who knows what you'll do next time!I'm completely disappointed in you right now!”
Hearing Xiaohe's decisive words, Lei Lei knelt on the ground, tears burst out of his eyes: "Xiaohe, I really know that I was wrong!."Do you just not believe me?I promise you, I will quit drinking, only drink juice in the future, and never get drunk like that in front of you again!Xiaohe smiled coldly: "Can I still trust a person who goes back on his word?"Didn't you promise me that the first few times?As a result, every time you socialize, you get drunk, and you lose my face!"That's all before!Lei Lei choked up, "This time, this time I really know your pain!."I will never let my work interfere with my life again, and I will never use alcohol to escape reality. "Okay, Lei Lei, you've said everything you need to say. I walked over and patted Xiaohe, "As your mother, I forgave you today, and I hope you will do what you say." During this time, I will let Xiaohe calm down for a few days, you can think about it yourself!”
Auntie, please persuade Xiaohe!Lei Lei knelt on the ground and couldn't get up, "This marriage is too important to me, I won't be able to live without her!."I helped Xiaohe to turn around and leave, leaving Lei Lei alone in the café in pain and sadness. Back at home, Xiaohe finally couldn't cry: "Mom, I'm really desperate, I feel like he's a different person." I can't trust him anymore!I hugged my daughter distressedly and comforted her softly: "Baby, don't be in a hurry to make a decision, give yourself and him some time to calm down, there will be a way." As a result, a month has passed, Lei Lei really hasn't touched a drop of wine again, goes out early and returns late every day, and works hard to support his family. Sometimes when I wake up at night, I can see him crying silently in the living room. 
At noon that day, he invited us to dinner at home. As soon as the dishes were served, they were all Xiaohe's favorite hometown dishes, and even the vegetables were cut into the shape of Xiaohe's favorite rabbit when he was a child. Xiaohe couldn't cry, and I couldn't help but shed tears. In the blink of an eye, my daughter has grown so big, I should learn to let go and believe that she has the ability to solve her own life. After much deliberation, I finally spoke: "Lei Lei, I believe that you will do what you say, and I also believe in my daughter's vision." This incident should be a new beginning for your relationship, and I will always support you to be together. Xiaohe wiped away her tears and looked at me, looked at Lei Lei, and finally nodded. 
Seeing that Xiaohe finally nodded and agreed to give himself a new start, Lei Lei knelt on the ground excitedly, holding Xiaohe's hand and crying bitterly. "Xiaohe, I really know that my mistake is in **. I can't alienate you because of work, and I can't use alcohol to escape stress. From now on, you and your family will come first to me!Xiaohe asked softly with red eyes: "Then will you still socialize in the future?"Will you still drink so much alcohol?"I promise that I won't drink too much in the future, and I will try to push off the entertainment, my home is my harbor, and I only love you one in this life!."Lei Lei swears. 
I stood on the sidelines and watched, and I couldn't help but have red circles in my eyes. Since my wife passed away, I haven't let go, and I still miss the old things from time to time. Now that I see my daughter regaining this relationship, I suddenly realize that it is time for me to learn to let go and live my own life. Since then, Lei Lei has fulfilled his promise and only drinks fruit juice and does not stick to alcohol. Xiaohe also looked a lot more cheerful, and the shadow of the past gradually faded. I gave up the master bedroom to them and moved to the guest room myself. In my free time, I dressed up well, said goodbye to my wife's **, and then began to actively participate in some community activities. A few months later, I went to a community dance party and met a gentleman named Huang. He seems to be elegant and has a gentle and easy-going personality. I was a little impressed, but the first thing that came to my mind was my daughter, and I decided to ask for her permission first. "Mom, you can even enlighten me and Lei Lei, now it's time to enlighten yourself, let go and love!Xiaohe's words made me make up my mind. In this way, Mr. Huang and I began to try to date. Lei Lei and Xiao He also strongly support, and Mr. Huang often comes to our house as a guest. We are like an old husband and wife, and we have both experienced the departure of our partners, so we know how to cherish the people in front of us.
Mr. Huang and I slowly became acquainted, and he would come to my house regularly, and sometimes I would go to his house to sit down. He didn't have any children, so he was happy to see the three of us happy. I found Mr. Huang to have a lively and enthusiastic personality, participated in many clubs, and made a wide range of friends. He would often take me out to watch ** meetings, watch dramas, go for a walk in the park, or cook food together. I was infected by him and became more and more cheerful. On one of my birthdays, Mr. Huang started preparing a month in advance. Not only did I book my favorite French restaurant in advance, but I also quietly communicated with Xiaohe and Lei Lei, so that everyone could give me a surprise party at home. That day, I smiled passionately and was warmly surrounded by everyone, as if I had returned to my youth. There will also be some hiccupes. Mr. Huang occasionally forgot to date me when he was busy, and I misunderstood that he was perfunctory to me. Later, Lei Lei took the time to talk to him, only to find out that it was actually the reason why he was too busy with work. Only then did I understand that even in a relationship, we must learn to be considerate of each other.