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Wen Wan said in a mood**All works are originalIn the long course of life, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people are like a spring breeze blowing on their faces, making people feel warm;For others, it's like the cold of winter, and people can't avoid it. I, a person who has experienced many hardships and vicissitudes, today I will reveal to you five kinds of people who are not suitable for deep friendship. Believe me, if you get too close to them, you will only suffer!1. A smiling tiger with a honey-bellied swordThis kind of person has a smiling face on the surface and sweet words, but in fact, he is scheming and calculating behind his back. An old classmate of mine, Xiao Zhang, is such a person. Back then, we were friends who talked about everything. However, as time went on, I found that he was always speaking ill of people behind his back and sowing discord. Once, I even heard him talk about me behind my back and speak ill of me. Since then, I have thoroughly seen his true colors and decisively cut off contact with him. As the saying goes, "open guns are easy to dodge, but hidden arrows are difficult to defend", and having a deep friendship with this kind of smiling tiger is tantamount to seeking skin with a tiger!Second, the selfish iron roosterSelfish people only have their own interests in their eyes, and they regard money as their life, and they do not pull out a dime. One of my distant relatives is such a person. At every party, he always tried to avoid paying the bill;When he needs help, he always finds all kinds of excuses to shirk. What's more, once he actually betrayed our mutual friend for a little profit!This kind of iron rooster behavior makes me deeply disdainful. Friendship with this kind of person?Don't be stupid!They're just going to make you lose money!
3. The negative energy king who is negative and pessimisticNegative and pessimistic people always see the worst side of things, they complain constantly and are full of negative energy. A friend of mine, Xiao Li, is such a person. Every time they met, he always complained that his work was not going well and his life was not satisfactoryWhen confronted with problems, he always chooses to run away rather than face them positively. After spending a long time with him, I found myself also affected by his negativity and became more and more pessimistic. Deep friendship with this kind of negative energy king?It's self-inflicted!They will devour your positive energy like a black hole and plunge you into endless darkness!Fourth, the scheming pretenderThis kind of person is good at disguising his true intentions and emotions, and is often unpredictable. They may be outwardly brothers-in-law to you, but behind the scenes they are calculating your interests. A colleague of mine is one such person. He is always very warm and friendly, but in fact he is secretly observing our words and actions, looking for opportunities. Once he even made a move in my project and made me suffer a big loss!Deep friendship with such pretenders?It's a self-defeating trap!The depth of their city is overwhelming, and if you don't pay attention, you may fall into their trap!5. Arrogant and impudent megalomaniacsArrogant and rude people, who always think that they are superior to others, are dismissive of others. One of my neighbors is such a person. He spends his days bragging about his achievements and abilities, scoffing at the opinions and suggestions of others. With such people, you will feel that your dignity has been trampled on worthless. Deeply involved with this megalomania?It's a humiliation!Their arrogant attitude will make you feel unbearable, and for a long time, it will only make you lose your self-confidence and self-esteem!
The above are the five kinds of people I have revealed for you that are not suitable for deep friendship. Trust me to get too close to them and you'll only lose money!On the road of life, we must learn to identify these "dangerous people" and protect our interests and emotions from harm. Remember that "you can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people", and when interacting with people, you must be vigilant to avoid being used and hurt by these people!