Whether the other party will cherish it if you get it too quickly is a complex question because everyone's personality, values, and experiences are different. However, we can approach this question from a psychological point of view.
First, people often develop a strong desire for scarcity. When we own something, if it's readily available, we may take it for granted and not particularly cherish it. On the contrary, if we get it after a lot of effort, we may cherish it even more. This is because we believe that the effort is worth it, and we don't want to lose what we've already paid.
Second, people's fear of loss can also affect whether they value what they have gained. When we get something, we may worry about losing it. This fear will make us appreciate what we have even more. However, if we get something too easily, we may not have this fear because we don't put in much effort to fight for it.
In addition, people's perception of self-worth also affects whether they value what they receive. If we don't think we deserve something, even if we get it, we probably won't value it. Conversely, if we think we deserve something, we may cherish it more.
However, there are also situations where getting something too quickly can cause the other person not to cherish it. For example, if the other person hasn't gone through the process of pursuit, they may not realize the value of the thing. Also, if the other person doesn't get enough satisfaction, they may feel that the thing is not worth cherishing.
To sum up, whether or not getting something too quickly will cause the other person not to cherish it depends on a variety of factors, including the individual's personality, values, and experiences. Therefore, we cannot simply say that getting something too quickly will inevitably lead to the other person not cherishing it. Instead, we should judge on a case-by-case basis whether the other person will value what we give.
When it comes to building and maintaining relationships, we should focus on balance. If we give too much to the other person too quickly, they may feel stressed and burdened and thus unwilling to value what we give. On the contrary, if we give the other person something in moderation and give them the opportunity to pursue and strive for it, they may appreciate what we give more.
In addition, we should also focus on cultivating gratitude in the other person. Through the power of education, guidance, and example, we can make the other person understand that what is obtained is not taken for granted, but requires effort and a price. In this way, they will appreciate what we give more.
Finally, we should also focus on building good communication and understanding with the other person. By listening to each other's needs and feelings, we can better understand their thoughts and expectations. In this way, we can better meet their needs and make them appreciate what we give more.
In conclusion, whether getting something too quickly will cause the other person not to cherish it is a complex issue that depends on a variety of factors. We should judge on a case-by-case basis whether the other person will value what we give, and take corresponding measures to cultivate gratitude and establish good communication and understanding. Only in this way can we build healthy, stable and lasting relationships.