The post-90s generation has experienced the rise of social ** andInformation**They are exposed to various stimuli and information from an early age, and are good at seizing opportunities and challenges. In the workplace, they show youthful energy and innovative spirit;And in the family, they also bring the baby in a unique way, tooth for tooth, and vigorously rectify their own "bear children". They dare to face problems and dare to act in order to educate their children, which is admirable.
1. Cultivating a sense of competition: the dietary problem of Maruko
Recently, the one-year-old "little ball" has begun to be picky eaters, rightMilk powderwithComplementary foodsNot interested, which made his parents very worried. But the post-90s parents have a different approach. They did not intend to tolerate adultery, instead, they decided to let the child experience the consequences of not eating first-hand in order to stimulate his latent appetite. During a meal, the child sat upright on the table, and Dad put a small pieceCookiesIn front of him. However, before he could react, Mom and Dad's four hands had already grabbed quickly. The child clings hardCookies, but in the end it was just a "loneliness". He stared blankly at his parents enjoying the food, and his heart was full of confusion and dissatisfaction. The child begins to realize that if he does not eat, he will have nothing to eat. Parents are not lost in the 90s, they understand that it is useless to coax their children to eat, and only by letting their children experience the consequences of not eating can they stimulate their appetite.
2. Learn to take care of yourself: the "toy counter" lesson of post-90s mothers
In the mall,ToysThe counter is the main attraction for the little ones. A child took a fancy to a car worth more than a thousandToyscar, his mother signaled not to buy, but the child was reluctant to leave. As a result, the child began to cry coquettishly, and even knelt on the ground and cried. However, his mother did not waver and decided to give the child one timelifeof the lessons. Without hesitation, she grabbed the rope of the child's sweatpants and dragged the child awayToysCounter. Seeing this scene, the cleaning aunt may understand that this mother is educating her children, and she is also grateful for the decision of their mother and son.
3. Severe restrictions: "torture" education for post-90s mothers
Some naughty children are really a headache for their parents, they don't like to study, they don't write properly, and they run around with their backs. For the parents of the post-90s, they will not easily hit their children, but if the children strike first, they will not be soft. A post-90s mother found that her child's endorsement was not up to par, so she decided to give him a "torture" education. She tied the child to a small poplar tree in front of her house and made the child recite the text motionless. The child could only stand under the tree, reciting with tears in his eyes. This approach may be a bit radical, but there is no doubt that children will be much more effective in this environment.
4. Empathy: The post-90s parents are an eye for an eye
Some children are particularly naughty and want to snatch something their parents are playing with, perhaps out of curiosity or to get their parents' attention. However, the parents of the post-90s generation are not used to this kind of behavior of their children. When the child will be in the hands of the parentsToysWhen the car was thrown far away, the parents immediately took action. They looked at the children one by oneToys, one, two, three. Throw them all out. The child looked at his parents stupidly, probably thinking in his heart: I threw one out myself, my parents threw out a bunch, and next time I have to pick it up one by one. This kind of eye-for-eye approach makes children understand that their behavior is not allowed, and it is a warning and a lesson for them.
5. Practice brings true knowledge: let children experience it firsthand
Children's "bear child" behavior often makes parents helpless, but the parents of the post-90s generation will not let go of such behavior easily. They will educate them by letting them experience it first-hand and make them understand that their actions are wrong. For example, if children don't like to take a bath, parents will let them experience the consequences of not bathing, such as bad body odor, itching, etc. In this way, children can directly feel the consequences of their actions and thus be more motivated to correct their mistakes.
In short, the parents of the post-90s generation retaliated with a tooth for a tooth to let the bear children understand the consequences, and they have a unique way of education and thinking. They dare to face problems, dare to act, and educate their children with practical actions. Under the guidance of the parents of the post-90s, bear children will gradually understand that their behavior is not acceptable, and at the same time, they will be able to better self-discipline and regulate their behavior.