30 years old is a beautiful age in the prime of life for many people, but for Fu Yiwei, this age has become an eternal pain. The appearance of a piece of news made her experience a great change in her life again. Fate comes and goes, my daughter is difficult to reproduce the splendor of the year, and the warmth given by fate is cruelly deprived in an instant, how should we face the impermanence of fate. This article intends to use Fu Yiwei's story to ** how a woman faces life after many ups and downs of fate, and how to regain her smile after pain.
In 1992, Fu Yiwei entered her second marriage, and she had high hopes for her marriage, hoping to regain happiness. A year later, she gave birth to her only son, Gao Lenan. For Fu Yiwei, Gao Lenan is her only spiritual sustenance in her many years of acting career. For the sake of this child, she is willing to give up her career and just wants him to grow up healthy and happy.
She prepares nutritious meals for her child, walks around the park with him, and tells him stories and fables. When the child sleeps, she will wait at the bedside to make sure he has a good night's sleep. However, the good times did not last long, and in 2000, Fu Yiwei and her husband divorced for various reasons. She had to take on the responsibility of raising Gao Lenan alone.
The divorce had a great impact on Gao Lenan, who was still a child. He began to become reticent and no longer as lively and cheerful as he used to be. Fu Yiwei saw it in his eyes and was shocked. She couldn't sleep late at night, reflecting on whether she wasn't taking enough care of her children. Maybe it's because I'm too busy at work, which leads to the loneliness in my child's heart. For this reason, she decided to take a break from filming and accompany her son through this difficult time.
During the day, Fu Yiwei will personally cook delicious meals for his son, and then accompany him to eatIn the afternoon, she would take her son to the park for a walk, play with ball, and see him smileIn the evening, Fu Yiwei will read a bedtime story to her son, telling her own experience of growing up, so as to encourage her son to be strong and optimistic. Gradually, under the care of his mother, Gao Lenan became cheerful and became more sensible and obedient.
In order to cultivate his son's hobbies, Fu Yiwei found that Gao Lenan has been interested in acting since he was a child. So she began to take Gao Lenan to her crew to learn and experience, and explained to him the skills of acting. Unexpectedly, Gao Lenan's performance in the crew was very good and won the unanimous praise of the staff. This strengthened Fu Yiwei's idea of training his son to learn acting. In the end, with her encouragement, Gao Lenan was successfully admitted to the Performance Department of ** Drama Academy and began his professional studies.
However, just when the relationship between mother and son was getting better and better, Fu Yiwei was exposed to a drug abuse scandal in 2016. She fell from a popular film and television actor all over the country to the clouds in an instant, and became the target of public criticism.
This is a huge blow to Fu Yiwei. From a celebrity in the entertainment industry to a notoriety, her psychological gap can be imagined. What makes her even more sad is that she may affect her son because of a mistake. She didn't know how her son would see her, or if he would despise him like everyone else.
At this time, her son's words touched her. Gao Lenan did not choose to stay away, but publicly apologized for his mother, saying that he would bear part of the consequences. He said that no matter what happens, he will accompany and encourage his mother. When the mother has trouble sleeping late at night, the son will sit by and talk to herWhen the mother blames herself, the son will hold her shoulder and tell her "I will always love you".
In his son's unconditional love, Fu Yiwei gradually came out of the haze. It is precisely with the big tree of her son that she can regain her footing. In the years that followed, she spent four years with her son, watching him grow into a talented acting student until he graduated and entered society.
Unexpectedly, when his son was 30 years old, a sudden cardiac arrest took his life. This bad news exploded in the entertainment industry in an instant, and everyone felt sad for Fu Yiwei. The loss of an only child is a huge blow to a mother, and Fu Yiwei was on the verge of collapse after learning the news.
She locked herself in the house, did not eat or drink, and let her tears flow. At that moment, it was as if the whole world had abandoned her, and all voices were far away from her. When friends and relatives came to see her, she would not open her mouth to communicate with others, but just shed tears silently. The world no longer meant anything to her.
In this way, Fu Yiwei spent a period of time in deep grief. Until one day, she suddenly saw a gift from her son before his death - a pair of embroidery. It reads "Mom, I love you forever".
At this moment, she seemed to hear her son talking to her: "Mom, you must live and live happily." ”
Fu Yiwei suddenly realized that she could not be immersed in grief forever, and she still had the responsibility to continue living. For the sake of her son, and for her own sake, she must pull herself together.
From that day on, Fu Yiwei began to walk and do yoga, trying to get his life back on track. At first, she still struggled to get out of the shadow of grief, but gradually, the exercise and the sun made her mood lighter.
One day, a child was injured in the park, and Fu Yiwei urgently did a simple treatment for him. The child's mother said to her gratefully, "Thank you so much. This scene touched Fu Yiwei, and she thought that as a mother, she would also hope that the world would be better for her children.
In this way, Fu Yiwei began to actively participate in some public welfare activities to help children who are still struggling with illness or poverty. She tells stories and sings songs to the children in the orphanage. Looking at the innocent smiling faces of the children, her heart was gradually filled with warmth.
Fu Yiwei knew that his son would be pleased with her current change. In his love, she regained her smile and found meaning in her life. She will be immersed in this hard-won happiness and spend the second half of her life.
30 years old, a beautiful year, but it has become Fu Yiwei's eternal pain. The sudden death of her son made her experience the cruelty of fate again. We all have to face this helpless reality. But at the same time, her son's love for his mother also warmed her and made her regain her strength. Perhaps, it is in love that we can overcome all the pain that fate gives us. I believe that Fu Yiwei will also be able to continue to love the world and live in the love of his son. Because to live, it takes courage, but at the same time, it also needs love. Grateful for her son's love and grateful to everyone who loves her, Fu Yiwei will definitely face a new life with a smile.