In marriage, we often fall into confusion and pain in the face of our partner's mistakes. However, a truly mature attitude is not blindly blamed and entangled, but understanding and tolerance.
First, understand that everyone makes mistakes. Your partner's mistakes don't mean she doesn't love or respect you. On the contrary, mistakes may be just small episodes in life, part of human nature. If you don't allow your partner to make mistakes, you're only going to make her more stubborn, because that's what human nature is.
Secondly, partners in marriage are not only close friends, but also enemies of each other. The word "enemy" here is not a pejorative meaning, but emphasizes the mutual checks and balances and supervision between partners. We should not easily doubt the loyalty of the other party because of certain behaviors, let alone make a fuss or hurt ourselves because of it.
In addition, marriage is a mutually agreed journey for both parties, and there will be many beautiful scenery along the way. However, it can also be boring to spend a lot of time together. At this time, it is necessary to allow the partner to enjoy the scenery outside the car. If you close the windows of your car so that you don't let the other person see the view, this not only restricts the other person's freedom, but it may also suffocate your relationship.
Finally, a truly healthy marriage is based on mutual need and respect. If the other party chooses to stay with you among the many choices, this is undoubtedly the most precious proof. And you also have to constantly improve your own value, so that the other party always needs you, so that he will be more loyal to you.
In conclusion, we should adopt an attitude of tolerance and understanding in the face of our partner's mistakes. Remember, the true meaning of a happy marriage is to "live yourself." Only when you are strong and confident enough can you truly attract and retain your partner's heart.