"Chen Shimei" in the eyes of her daughter In June 1976, Zhong Xinghuo's original wife Chen Qian died due to years of hard work to take care of the family, suddenly fell into a coma with cerebral hemorrhage, and failed to be sent to the hospital in time
At this time, Zhong Xinghuo's three daughters learned the news of their mother's death, and they all cried bitterly, and their hearts were full of grief.
However, when they saw their father Zhong Xinghuo who hurried back, they were even more indescribably angry, blaming their father for always coming so late.
Zhong Xinghuo listened to the hoarse cries of his three daughters, and only then did he really feel the pain of his wife's death, and he couldn't believe that his wife had left him so suddenly.
He also deeply understands that he owes too much to his wife and daughters, and that he feels deeply guilty and bitter for not fulfilling his responsibilities as a husband and father while he is busy with his acting career.
However, the three daughters did not comfort their father who lost his wife like ordinary fathers and daughters, nor could they see the guilt and reluctance in their father's eyes.
Zhong Xinghuo was in great pain and took a long time to recover from the blow of his wife's death, but his daughter did not come to accompany her father after her mother's death, but turned a blind eye to her father.
At this time, Zhong Xinghuo's friend couldn't stand it, he had been deeply saddened and couldn't extricate himself, so he introduced a ** to take care of his life.
This ** is his second wife Zhu Yunyi, the two have a similar situation, and they have come together for a long time.
Zhong Xinghuo, who found his wife, told his daughters the news that he was going to get married, but he didn't expect that this incident completely caused the daughters' backlog of dissatisfaction for many years.
They strongly opposed their father's decision to remarry, and the eldest daughter even said to Zhong Xinghuo: "Your mother has just died two years ago, and you are going to marry another wife, are you worthy of her?"Although Zhong Xinghuo felt sorry for his daughters' misunderstanding of him, he did not give up the decision to remarry because of their opposition, and still firmly chose to enter into marriage with Zhu Yunyi.
However, in the face of their father's decision, they gave up their father-daughter relationship, teamed up to force their father away, and did not allow them to live in their mother's former house after marriage.
Faced with the strong rejection of his daughters, Zhong Xinghuo, who was already guilty in his heart, compromised and moved to live elsewhere with Zhu Yunyi.
However, Zhong Xinghuo was still unable to enjoy tranquility after marriage, and his daughters often went to **, making him a "scumbag" in the eyes of everyone and suffering great condemnation.
Even so, they still did not stop all kinds of embarrassing behaviors.
Although Zhong Xinghuo did not enjoy the family warmth of his daughters after remarriage, they have been living happily under the care of his wife Zhu Yunyi.
Over the years, Zhong Xinghuo has never forgotten his daughters, but unfortunately even before he died at an advanced age in 2014, he was not able to see his daughters for the last time.
At the funeral, only the youngest daughter attended the ceremony, and the other two daughters did not even show up once.
Hearing these words, the three daughters burst into tears, and their hearts were full of inexplicable remorse.
However, this remorse was too late, and they could no longer see their father's soft smile.
Childhood sweetheart's original partner Zhong Xinghuo was born shortly after, and was sent by his biological parents to live in his adoptive parents' house
His surname also follows his adoptive father.
Later, he took the stage name Zhong Xinghuo for himself.
Back then, Zhong Xinghuo and his original wife Chen Qian were engaged to marry since they were children, and they had a "baby parent" relationship.
Coupled with the custom of early marriage, which was common in those days, they got married in their teens.
The two were originally a good match, and they also had a common language after marriage.
Chen Qian also understands her husband's inner ideals and ambitions very well.
A few years later, they gave birth to three daughters.
When Zhong Xinghuo was about to go to the Officer Training Corps of Linyi Liberated Area in Shandong Province to study and Xi, he couldn't make a decision because he couldn't bear his wife and children around him.
However, Chen Qian had already sensed her husband's worries and said to him: "You can rest assured to go to study and Xi work, I will take care of everything at home, and when you stabilize yourself, I will take us over." ”
So, Zhong Xinghuo embarked on the journey of work with reluctance.
However, when he finally stabilized, he immediately returned home to see that his daughters no longer knew him and were resistant to him.
Seeing this, Chen Qian immediately stepped forward and said to her daughters, "This is your father. ”
After that, Zhong Xinghuo took his wife and daughter to settle in Shanghai by train.
However, Zhong Xinghuo is busy acting to earn money to support his family, and often does not have time to go home to accompany his wife and daughter, resulting in his three daughters always being vague about his role.
In their childhood, only their mother took care of them diligently, and even in their memory, their mother went from a noble woman to a physically exhausted patient because of their father's career.
In addition, they see their father more on the big screen than at home, and their impression of his father comes more from his roles in the movies "South Island Storm", "Li Shuangshuang" and "Dr. Bethune".
The long separation made it difficult for the three daughters to get close to him, and even because of their father's profession, they suffered unimaginable torture in that era.
They grew up with their mother alone and suffering from their father's profession, and gradually complained.
However, Chen Qian still persevered, only reporting good news and not bad news, and couldn't bear to see her husband's already trapped inner worries.
The three daughters saw that their mother was still thinking about their father, and buried their dissatisfaction in their hearts, and the relationship between father and daughter was not so stiff.
When Zhong Xinghuo starred in the movie "A Safety Belt", the daughters did not expect that their father never stopped to accompany their mother well, so that their mother had an accident.
At that time, they thought that if the father was not busy with his career and did not stop to accompany his mother, then the mother might not have suffered misfortune.
In fact, in addition to his love for acting, Zhong Xinghuo in that era was busy to make money to support his family.
He needs to ensure the family's financial expenses, so he can only work hard for his career, and he is so busy that he has no time to go home, and the responsibility of the family naturally falls on his original wife Chen Qian.
Therefore, when he remarried, the daughters developed strong feelings of resentment towards him, because they believed that the father had taken the mother's rightful place by marrying a new wife.
The resentment at this time made them unable to see the guilt and love in their father's heart, which led to years of tragedy on both sides.
Zhong Xinghuo dedicated his life to his acting career, leaving one classic image after another on the big screen
However, while he is busy with his career, he lacks the responsibility of being a father in his family role.
Money can buy everything, but it can't fill the lack of father's love.
From his daughter's point of view, Zhong Lao is not a competent father.
However, he has been working hard for his family for so many years, and the three daughters can't completely ignore the hard work of their father working outside.
Therefore, the example of Zhong Lao reminds us that we must be considerate of each other when dealing with our family members, so as not to end up regretting it for the rest of our lives.