In Maugham's book The Veil, he once said: "Everything in the world is so ephemeral that nothing lasts long." However, it's sad that people often quarrel and hurt each other over trivial things. ”
Think about it.
When we are obsessed with scheming, complaining, hating, or even hating people and things that make us feel unhappy, our mood does not become lighter and more cheerful, on the contrary, our emotions become more depressed and depressed.
Those endless disputes do not stop there, on the contrary, contradictions, misunderstandings and estrangements only intensify.
The never-ending pain has not dissipated, it is still quietly gnawing at our hearts at night, creeping quietly in the dark corners.
One cannot keep a poisonous snake in one's heart forever, nor can one get up every night and plant thorns in the garden of the soul. ”
Even if it's just for yourself, you should learn to forgive and be tolerant.
Everything in the world comes and goes like a dream. The prosperity will eventually come to an end, and everything will eventually return to dust.
If we have been immersed in love and hatred, trapped in grievances, we will miss the beauty of sunrise and sunset, the tranquility of the starry sky, and all the wonderful scenery in the journey of life.
Taking a step back may not make the sky wider, but further may encounter impassable cliffs. While it is not necessary to give up on oneself immediately, inner pain is often unavoidable.
Therefore, in order for the soul to rest, to be able to sleep well when the body and mind are tired, and to have a broader perspective as we move forward, we must learn to forgive ourselves.
Forget about irrelevant disputes and frictions, and let go of those grudges and disputes that are entangled in obsessions. Clean your inner room regularly, get rid of old and broken garbage, make room for the sun, and plant more flowers.
As Yang Jiang said: "When you see through the impermanence of life, you can forgive everything." ”
While forgiving others, it is also forgiving for oneself.
Be more tolerant and understanding in life, and less calculating and persistent.
In the adult world, one turn of thought is hope, and the other turns back is a new life.
When you learn to look at the world with soft eyes, you will find that there is beauty and surprise everywhere.