Ms. Zhang and her husband have been married for 9 years, and when they found out that their husband was having an affair, Ms. Zhang first chose to turn a blind eye, not because she wanted to endure it, but because she didn't know how to deal with it.
At that time, Ms. Zhang's idea was that it would be best if the man was tired of playing and could go home, because she would act as if all this had not happened, and if the man continued to be entangled with the third sister like this, she would find a way to deal with this matter.
But what Ms. Zhang didn't expect was that when she hadn't made any moves, the third sister took the initiative to start the routine.
The third sister first took the initiative to come to the door to talk to Ms. Zhang, and the third sister told Ms. Zhang:
I've been with your husband for several years, and he's been happy with me like never before, and he says he loves me alone, but because he has children, he can't divorce you right away.
You should know that your husband doesn't love you anymore, what's the use of you insisting on such a marriage?If I were for your own dignity, I would divorce because I wouldn't leave someone who doesn't love me around.
So I hope you can fulfill him, you can't give him happiness, do you want to make him miserable for the rest of his life?”
Afterwards, my husband pretended that nothing had happened and lived as usual, and the third sister saw that Ms. Zhang had no movement, so she beat and abused Ms. Zhang every three or five days.
In less than half a year, Ms. Zhang was diagnosed with thyroid nodules and breast nodules, and her mood became more depressed.
Ms. Zhang and her husband are a typical family who are routinely tricked by the third sister. The third sister used several common tricks to trick Ms. Zhang and the man respectively.
part.01 The first trick used by the third sister against Ms. Zhang is called "mental suppression".
For example, the third sister said to Ms. Zhang that men don't love Ms. Zhang anymore, and Ms. Zhang is redundant now, and sarcastically ridiculed Ms. Zhang for being spineless, old and ugly, and unable to hold a man's heart.
For the original match, these words are all heart-piercing words. The average original partner is likely to break the defense after hearing these words, and they will divorce like a dead heart, and let the man and the third sister toss.
But in fact, why did the third sister insult the original partner?It's because the man's promise to the third sister has not been fulfilled for a long time, and the third sister is anxious, and if she can't get a man, she can only come to get you.
If a man really loves this third sister very much, and wants to divorce the original partner for the sake of the third sister, then he will definitely be reluctant to let the third sister come to the original match, and the man will come forward to carry everything by himself. The third sister, who ran to find trouble with her original partner, was actually not strong in front of men.
Even if a man is willing to coax her in a low voice, the third sister may not take much advantage in front of the key interests. If you break the defense and want to divorce after listening to the third sister's two words, then the third sister is really going to set off firecrackers to celebrate, and she tricks you, won't it be successful?
part.02 The second trick used by the third sister against Ms. Zhang is called "Wild Horse Ending", which is also referred to as "Wild Horse Bureau".
Ms. Zhang's relationship with her husband was not so bad at the beginning, and even though she knew that her husband was cheating, Ms. Zhang was trying to stabilize the overall situation. Since when did Ms. Zhang become afraid to divorce and can't get a man, and finally got into a fight with a man?
The problem was when the third sister kept harassing Ms. Zhang. This is the typical Bronco Bureau.
The Wild Horse Bureau refers to a colony of vampire bats on the African savannah, sucking blood on the legs of wild horses all year round. But because these bats are extremely flexible, no matter how furious the wild horses are, there is nothing they can do with these bats.
Moreover, these vampire bats do not suck much blood each time, which is not enough to make the wild horse die, but it can torture the wild horse into an impotent rage, extremely emotional and morbid appearance, and finally the wild horse is exhausted to death in a desperate run.
When the third sister kept suppressing the original match, it seemed that it was just a few minutes of ** on the surface. But in fact, every call of the third sister pokes directly into the heart of the original partner, and gradually the emotions of the original partner will become more and more unstable, and in the end she will be like a wild horse.
hurt herself because of the third sister's poison and the man's mistakes, and even hurt everyone around her.
Many third sisters are like this, at the beginning, they first gave the original partner a fatal mental blow, and when the original partner was depressed and didn't figure it out, they immediately gave the original partner a "Wild Horse Bureau", so that the original partner would never go back.