"Love is a matter of two people, and it will be tiring for only one party to give. ”
In the world of relationships, sometimes we meet people who keep saying they love you, but their behavior makes you feel no love. Especially when this behavior comes from a woman you love dearly, it can make you feel confused and painful. Today, I want to share with you a point of view: a woman who treats you like this is not in love with you, but at all in her heart.
1. Ignore your feelings.
A woman who truly loves you will always pay attention to your feelings and care about your thoughts. She will share your joy when you are happy, give advice when you are confused, and provide comfort when you are sad. She will carefully observe your expressions and emotional changes, and try to understand your inner world, because she knows that to love someone is to go into his heart and experience his joys and sorrows.
She will respect your opinions and will fully consider your views and suggestions, whether it is in trivial matters or important decisions. She understands that everyone has their own way of thinking and values, and true love is about understanding and acceptance, not forcing and changing. She will make you feel the warmth of being respected and understood, and make you feel that you can be your true self by her side.
She will consider your needs, both material and spiritual. She will try to meet your reasonable needs and will also encourage you to aim higher. She will not neglect your needs because of her own selfishness, nor will she give up on supporting you because of your temporary difficulties. She will make you feel the happiness of being cared for and taken care of, and make you feel that with her company, you can move forward.
However, if a woman always ignores your feelings, ignores your thoughts, and only focuses on her own needs and interests, then she does not really love you. She may just see you as a tool for her own needs, rather than someone who deserves respect and care. She may use your kindness and forbearance to achieve her own ends, without caring about your emotions and dignity.
2. Ignore your needs.
"Love is a matter of two people, and it will be tiring for only one party to give. A woman who truly loves you will care about your needs and meet your expectations as much as possible. She will communicate with you, understand your ideas and needs, and then cooperate with you as much as possible. However, if a woman always ignores your needs and only focuses on her own interests, then she does not really love you. She may just treat you as an appendage rather than an equal partner.
3. Focus only on your own interests.
A woman who truly loves you will have your interests at heart and will even sacrifice her own interests for your sake. She will care about your life and work and think about you. However, if a woman only focuses on her own interests and disregards your feelings and needs, then she does not really love you. She may just use you to satisfy her own desires and needs instead of genuinely caring about you.
Fourth, lack of communication and understanding.
Love requires communication and understanding. A woman who truly loves you will maintain good communication with you and understand your thoughts and needs. She will respect your opinion and understand your actions. However, if a woman is always reluctant to communicate with you and does not understand your thoughts and actions, then she does not really love you. She may just be living in her own world and is not willing to take the time and effort to get to know you.
5. Frequently lying or concealing facts from you.
Honesty is one of the cornerstones of love. A woman who truly loves you will be honest with you and will not lie to you or hide the truth. But if a woman often lies to you or hides the truth, then she doesn't really love you. She may have her own goals and motivations, and she is reluctant to let you know who she really is.
To sum up, when a woman always ignores your feelings, ignores your needs, only focuses on her own interests, lacks communication and understanding, and often lies to you or conceals the facts, then she probably doesn't have you at all in her heart.
When you meet such a woman, do not be fooled by her words, but feel her behavior and attitude with your heart. If she really doesn't love you, then you have to be brave enough to let go and find the happiness that truly belongs to you.