borrowed 300,000 yuan to help my brother marry a wife, but after marriage, he turned his face and refused to pay it back, and I made a ruthless move to get back the arrears
Mom, you have to pay me back, otherwise, Zheng Guangmin will divorce me. ”
My voice was a little shaky and emotional when I spoke.
Leave, you're only thirty years old, why worry about not finding a better man than Zheng Guangmin?”
My mother's tone was flat, like snowflakes falling on the surface of a lake, without emotion.
My heart fluttered, and my voice became sharp.
If you don't think about me, at least you should think about Yangyang, he is only six years old, are you willing to let him live in a single-parent family?”
My mom finally looked at me, her eyes full of disdain and indifference, "You expect me to get 300,000 from ** to you?."”
I don't want you to take it out all at once, Zheng Guangmin said, give three months, pay back 300,000, and then don't divorce, otherwise, there is no need to talk about it. ”
The corners of my mother's mouth twitched, and her brow furrowed slightly.
You go back first, I have to discuss it with your brother. ”
When I came out of my mother's house, my tears flowed uncontrollably.
I dialed ** to my best friend Lingling, "I have a showdown with my mother today, and if I don't pay back, I'm going to divorce." My mother actually persuaded me to leave and not to persuade peace, am I really abandoned?”
Lingling snorted coldly on the other end of the **.
Now that I know that I am crying, I advised you not to borrow it, but you have to borrow it. But it's useless to say this, didn't Zheng Guangmin give three months?If your mother doesn't pay back the money, I'll help you. ”
Shot ......Help me. ”
Lingling's relaxed words made me feel a little better, and I knew that she did what she said.
The heavy steps took me home, Zheng Guangmin was smoking in the living room, and the ashtray was already full of cigarette butts, like a piece of tombstone. Seeing me come back, he got up and walked to the guest room, "My son and I have already eaten out, you can order a takeout." ”
My mother's family was cold to me, my husband was cold, and my mouth was full of bitterness.
And I brought it all on myself.
People say that my whole life has been in the trauma of ** childhood, and I have lacked love since I was a child, because my parents gave all my love to my younger brother. From the moment he was born, the family's attention shifted completely to him, and I became dust floating in the air.
I don't want to be a neglected dust, and I also want to be loved by my parents.
So I tried my best to be a sensible and good child, never talk back to my parents, never make excessive demands, never mess with my younger brother, and maintain the first place in the exam.
My neighbors praised me for being sensible, and my classmates regarded me as a role model, but even so, my parents still only cared about my younger brother and rarely smiled or affirmed me.
I am very sad, but what makes me even more sad is that my parents are not only emotionally biased towards my younger brother, but also materially.
When I had my first period, I felt sad and whispered to my mother at the dinner table for money to buy sanitary napkins. At that time, my father was unemployed at home, and the family was financially strained.
My dad only heard me whispering to my mother asking for money, and asked indiscriminately, "Why do you want money for food and clothing?"”
I felt aggrieved at the time, I didn't have any money, and I couldn't let the blood flow on my pants!
I said out loud, "I want money for sanitary napkins!"”
Dad heard me yell at him and put down his chopsticks, "What sanitary napkins to buy?".Just take the paper pads!”
I looked at my mother, who lowered her head and remained silent, just took a piece of chicken leg and put it in my brother's bowl.
I put down my chopsticks and ran out of the house crying, my pants still stained with blood. My parents didn't come out to look for me, I ran to Lingling's house, and her mother felt sorry for me, changed my new pants, and gave me a big bag of sanitary napkins.
How's yesterday's conversation?Zheng Guangmin asked me while eating breakfast. I sat on the couch and was dizzy. I didn't want to get into an argument, so I had to reply tactfully: "My mom has managed to raise some money." ”
Zheng Guangmin didn't ask, and began to sort out his things, preparing to send Yangyang to school. Before going out, he said to me: "There is also an omelette in the pot, it is half-cooked, don't go to the store today, your dark circles are almost to your chin, take a good rest at home." ”
I looked up and looked at him. He avoided my gaze, but I still noticed his bloodshot eyes, which made me feel even more guilty.
Zheng Guangmin's family runs a goose meat business, supplying restaurants and delicatessen stalls in the town. My parents-in-law also have a stall in the vegetable market that specializes in selling goose meat. This industry is hard and not easy to make money, Zheng Guangmin needs to get up in the middle of the night to slaughter geese, work until morning, and then drive non-stop delivery, busy until noon to take a break.
His hands were as rough as steel wool.
He never asked me to help because the work was dirty, tiring, and involved the slaughter of lives. And I opened a boutique ** shop in the town and lived a leisurely life.
After giving birth to Yangyang, he actually sent me to the confinement center in the city. Although it is a fourth-tier city, it cost me more than 40,000 yuan. I was distressed, but my body did recover well after giving birth, with rosy cheeks, a slender waist, and the envy of my friends around me.
Zheng Guangmin took care of me in every way and was willing to spend a lot of money for me. He said that those women who are depressed all day long are either short of love or lack of money.
Since I married you, it will make you happy. ”
At that time, I was like a bee that had fallen into a honey pot, and I was very happy. However, I still crossed the bottom line of marriage. I used to think that Zheng Guangmin was good to me, so he should accommodate me in everything, think about me, and not let me have troubles.
And my biggest worry is my family of origin.
My father was unemployed when I was in sixth grade and had been living an idle life. He fished for three days and dried nets for two days, so after graduating from high school, I went to work in an electronics factory with Lingling, because it provided food and accommodation. Most of the money I saved went to my family.
In the third year, I was promoted to workshop leader, and my salary also increased a lot. I wanted to save some dowry for myself, but at that time, my younger brother was in college, and I basically paid for the tuition and living expenses.
There have been complaints, there have been unwillingness, and there have been tears.
But the hardest thing to escape is the cage of the family of origin. Mom always said to me again and again in **
You are an older sister, you don't help your brother, you don't help this family, do you want me to borrow money from your father and outsiders to let outsiders see jokes?”
You and your brother are blood thicker than water, and his dedication to him will be remembered in his heart, and he will be good to you in the future. ”
Without you, this family really can't survive, and if you stay up for another year, your brother will graduate. ”
I have lived in a patriarchal family for a long time and have been deeply affected. I've become a "giving" personality.
Your parents are here for you. You see, she said that family blood is thicker than water, why can't your brother work and study, and ask you for your hard-earned money sooner or later?Why is he the one who went to college, and you have to give up college to work?”
Every time I sent money home, Lingling always worked hard to "educate" me. I know she feels sorry for me.
You're an only child, you don't understand. ”
Yes, yes, yes, I don't understand. Just wait and see, what is called an unfed white-eyed wolf!”
Lingling's remarks were verified, and I thought I would be relieved when my brother graduated and got a job. However, reality brutally showed me another side.
After graduating, my brother met a girlfriend who wanted him to buy a house in the city. So, my mother suddenly patronized my shop and unceremoniously asked me for 200,000 yuan. I was at a loss: "Mom, 200,000!."Where did I get so much money?”
There was an indescribable meaning in my mother's eyes, "Zheng Guangmin's money is all with you, don't tell me you don't have any money." You have spent so much money on confinement, look at how many women in our town have been to the confinement center?Your brother's marriage and buying a house is a major life event, can't you help it?When he gets married, he'll be grateful to you for the rest of his life!”
My mother stared at me pointedly, and there was a touch of ** in those green eyes that could not be ignored, like a knife piercing my heart.
When my younger brother gets married, it is natural for my sister to help. What does your mom say, how much do you need?Zheng Guangmin frowned when he saw me, and stroked my eyebrows with his index finger.
Twenty ......Million!”
When I said the number, I distinctly felt his body shake slightly, and his hand was withdrawn. I can understand that, because all the savings in the family add up to about that.
Wife, said in the front, if it is two thousand yuan, I will give it directly, and I will not say a word more. But 200,000 must be borrowed!And to write an IOU!Zheng Guangmin didn't dare to look at me, but his tone was very firm.
No one's money is blown by the wind, and IOUs should be written. ”
I immediately called my mother, and I could feel her nodding like garlic on the other end.
Borrow!Borrow!Borrow!IOU, write!Write!Write!”
That night, Zheng Guangmin and I calculated the passbook at home, and it was only 180,000 yuan. I borrowed another 20,000 yuan from Lingling, and of course I was ridiculed by her.
It's over, it's over, you fool believes that your mother and brother will pay back. ”
Zheng Guangmin didn't say anything, so don't pour cold water here. ”
I scraped together enough 200,000 yuan, and the next day I drove to my parents' house with Zheng Guangmin and took them to the bank to transfer the money. My mother smiled from ear to ear, and the old lady welcomed us into the house like an emperor and an empress.
My younger brother successfully bought a house in the city, and the work is also going well, and my girlfriend saw her name written on his real estate certificate, and she was even more gentle to my brother. Marriage is also on the agenda.
However, more than a year has passed, but the younger brother and sister-in-law have never mentioned the matter of repaying the money. Zheng Guangmin began to complain, and his concern decreased.
Our marriage is like a crack in the ice, and although we can still walk on it, we always feel a little nervous in our hearts.
I often mentioned it to my mom, but she was always perfunctory.
I'll pay you back when I have money, but now I don't have any money, you can't force me!This reminds me of the old saying, "If you don't pay it back for a thousand years, you won't be bad for a hundred years." ”
Zheng Guangmin didn't expect my mother's family to have such an attitude, resentment was like a seed slowly germinating in his heart, and finally grew into a towering tree.
A month before my brother was about to get married, an unexpected change occurred.
That day, my dad was riding an electric tricycle to make a delivery when he suddenly fainted on the side of the road and hit his head on the ground. By the time he was rushed to the hospital, the situation was already very serious. Doctors urgently recommend a craniotomy, otherwise you will only be able to live for up to three more days. However, the surgery required a payment of 80,000 yuan, and our family was helpless.
Outside the hospital, the family was anxious. The doctor insisted on paying the surgery fee first, and my mother said to me with tears in her eyes, "What are you still doing in a daze?"Hurry up and pay the money!”
I turned to Zheng Guangmin, who looked nervous and said in a stiff tone: "How can this money be borne by our family?".It should be evenly divided between brothers and sisters!”
The younger brother jumped up like a frightened little animal: "How can I have so much money, I don't have a penny!."”
Zheng Guangmin was furious: "No money?."How can you get married without money?What about the money for the banquet?What about the bride price?Now that human lives are at stake, can't we take out the money and use it first?”
The younger brother was speechless, like a frightened rabbit, curled up in a corner of the hospital, motionless. And you never showed up in the hospital.
My mother finally couldn't help it, and rolled around in the hospital corridor uncontrollably, like a crazy monkey, waving her limbs wildly: "Forget it, forget it, no money!."If you don't save it, you can't save it, you don't have any money!”
Faced with such a scene, Zheng Guangmin couldn't bear to see death without help, so he hurriedly borrowed money to make up the operation fee. My mother got up from the ground, changed her face instantly, and sneered: "Thank you to my good son-in-law!."”
However, Zheng Guangmin sneered, walked straight up to my brother, slapped him hard, and said coldly: "It's really inhumane!."”
Despite the surgery, my dad didn't survive and passed away a week later. There was a lot of wailing in the house, but Zheng Guangmin did not show up at my father's funeral. What disappointed me even more was that his eyes on me became cold and indifferent.
Due to my dad's death, my brother's wedding was postponed to the following year. In this year, the mother's family never mentioned the matter of repaying the money.
I know very well that the cracks on the ice of my marriage with Zheng Guangmin are getting bigger and bigger, like a rose that no one has watered, and it is rapidly withering.
Once again, he lent his mother's family 100,000 yuan because his younger brother was about to buy a car.
At that time, the younger brother's wedding date was approaching, the hotel had been booked, the wedding had been arranged, and the relatives had also been notified, so it could be said that everything was ready. However, for some reason, my brother-in-law suddenly decided to buy a car, and she was firm. "Who doesn't have a car now," she saidDo you have to take a battery car with your stomach when you get pregnant in the future?”
Due to the previous unpleasant experience, I will definitely not borrow money again. But my mom came to my shop every three days like a leech, crying and making trouble.
I first called the police, but the police only mediated. Afterwards, my mother still came to make trouble, sometimes shouting loudly, sometimes nagging like Tang Seng, sometimes sad and sad, and her mental state became very bad all day.
Daughter, if your brother doesn't get married this time, your father won't be at peace under Jiuquan. ”
I promise, this is the last time. As long as your brother's marriage goes well, I will pay off your debts even if I am a cow and a horse!”
Daughter, don't you want your mother to feel at ease like your father?”
My mother is noisy and shouting in my shop every day, and I can't stand it, just like the supreme treasure in "Journey to the West" was recited by Tang monks.
I really didn't want to be bothered by her anymore, and the thought of her babbling face made me even break out in a cold sweat in my sleep.
In the end, I still gave her 100,000 yuan, of which 60,000 yuan was the payment I owed to Zheng Guangmin, and the other 40,000 yuan was the money I earned from opening a store. As a precautionary measure, I asked her and her brother to sign an IOU.
My brother's wedding went smoothly, and my mother cried like a tearful person at the wedding, telling relatives and friends about the difficulty of raising children, and now that her son and daughter have a happy family, she can be regarded as having survived.
I thought it was ironic, happy?My marriage with Zheng Guangmin is already in jeopardy, and there is still happiness to speak of.
However, the truth of the matter is difficult to hide after all. When Zheng Guangmin learned about my loan to my mother's family, he didn't get angry with me, but just sat quietly in the living room, smoking cigarettes one after another, half of his face was in shadows, and I couldn't see his expression clearly.
The doors and windows in the living room were closed, and I couldn't stand the smell of smoke, so I got up and went to open the windows to ventilate.
I'll give you three months, and if you can't get 300,000 yuan back, we'll forget it. Zheng Guangmin's tone was flat, but full of despair.
I turned my head to look at him, tears welling up in my eyes, "Didn't you once say that marrying you will make me happy and not make me sad?"I just really can't do it. ”
Zheng Guangmin extinguished the cigarette butt, his eyes red, "I'm talking about making you happy, not making your whole family." If I'm a multi-millionaire, it doesn't matter if it's a little bit of money, but it's a pity that I'm just a hard-working person who earns hard-earned money. ”
We looked at each other, full of helplessness and sadness. He didn't ask too much, at least he didn't mention the money that my dad was saving at the hospital.
I didn't want to lose the family I had established with Zheng Guangmin, so I made a request to borrow 300,000 yuan from my mother's family.
The three-month period is coming to an end.
During this time, although Zheng Guangmin showed concern for me verbally, we had slept in separate beds. I felt that he had made up his mind this time that if I couldn't return the money, our marriage would fall apart. Moreover, he will not let me keep custody of my son because the son is more intimate with him. Even if the son is left to choose, he will choose the father.
I'm going to have nothing.
My mother's family has not responded, which makes me anxious. I was so nervous that I couldn't sleep all night, and I had to rely on sleeping pills to barely sleep. Until one day, my mother suddenly called** and asked me to go back to my parents' house. I rushed home and found my mom and brother greeting me with smiles on their faces.
Is the money scrapped?”
My mom and my brother argued for a long time, and finally my mom spoke.
Daughter, my mother did something wrong before, although people said to persuade and not to persuade you to leave, but your mother may not have thought it through enough and did not take into account your feelings. I discussed it with your brother and thought that Zheng Guangmin was a good son-in-law, and Yangyang was still young, so this marriage could not be given up lightly no matter what. ”
That's right!That's right!That's right!My brother nodded and echoed.
Okay, are you going to give me back the 300,000?Even if we don't reconcile, going to court is the joint property of Zheng Guangmin and me, and there is an IOU as proof. ”
My mom and brother were silent, their heads bowed, and I really couldn't understand what they were going to do.
Daughter, you discuss it with Zheng Guangmin, after all, 300,000 is not a small amount. You ask him to give us another three months, and if it doesn't work, two months is fine. We will find a way to scrape together this money and promise to pay it back to him when the time comes!”
I shook my head, "No way, these three months are already the deadline, there's no room for bargaining!."If I can't pay it back, I can only choose the path of divorce, and even if I get divorced, the money must be repaid. ”
My mom and my brother looked at each other, their eyes were full of worry, but I didn't know if they were worried about me or for themselves, until I received Lingling's **.
Did your mother advise you not to get a divorce?”
Yes, she still thinks about me. ”
Lingling laughed loudly in **, as if this was the first time she laughed in her life, and after hanging **, we agreed to meet at the old place.
Half an hour later, Lingling hurriedly appeared in the café wearing a dark blue trench coat, stylish sunglasses, and slender dark blue high heels. Her makeup is cold and delicate, her eyeliner even hooks her eyebrows, and her lips are painted like a bright blood.
Do you know why your mom won't let you get a divorce?Do you really think she's the mother who feels sorry for you?Actually, it's because your hometown is about to be demolished!The house you live in now belongs to Zheng Guangmin's pre-marital property, and if you get divorced, your hukou can only move to your mother's house, so that they will be given a share of the demolition money. ”
My hand trembled slightly as I picked up my coffee, and it spilled on the table.
Did you hear from **?”
My house is very close to your house, and it has been zoned as a demolition area. According to the size of your house, you can get at least three million, and there is also a suite. ”
I was stunned, and Lingling continued.
The demolition money will be available in about two months. ”
I finally understood that my mother asked me not to divorce for the time being, and to wait for another two or three months, because she wanted to wait for the demolition money to come down, everything would be stable, and I would have nothing. All they care about is money, not me.
I felt like I was falling into an ice cellar, as if my heart was being pinched, and it became difficult to breathe. Some people will never change, and the evil of human nature is unreservedly revealed, greedy, indifferent, and selfish.
Don't cry, tears aren't worth anything. It seems that your mother and brother enjoy the taste of meat and eggs, and are not even willing to give you a mouthful of soup to drink. Want them to pay back?Dream on, you can only choose the last resort. ”
Do you have any plans?”
Lingling put on her sunglasses and said in a cold tone: "Stephen Chow once said in a movie that you have to be more adulterous than her to deal with adulterers." ”
There are only fifteen days left in the three-month period.
I used to cry in the middle of the night, and the next day my eyes hurt unbearably.
I had already learned about the demolition money, and my mother and my brother stopped acting and told me not to want to get a share. A married daughter is like water that has been spilled.
Lingling is right, I have paid silently since I was a child, and in their eyes it is just a matter of course, sometimes people are not as good as animals!There is no reason at all.
Another sleepless night.
I stared at the sleeping pills on the bedside table, I really wanted to swallow them in one go, tossing and turning all night, and finally called ** to Lingling, confiding in her despair in my heart.
I was like dust floating in the air since I was a child, working hard, wanting to be loved by my parents, longing for the warmth of my family, but in the end it became a joke. I really want to end this. ”
Then go for it!When you die, your mother and your brother will laugh so much more. Zheng Guangmin will marry again, have a woman to live in your house, drive your car, spend your money, sleep in your bed, and take your children. ”
Your mouth is more poisonous than arsenic, but I'm glad you have you. ”
You're a fool, and a fool needs someone to cover him. Rest assured, I have made a plan in the past few days and will act according to the plan tomorrow. ”
Early the next morning, I followed Lingling's suggestion to enlarge and print the IOU and the transfer record of 300,000 yuan, and hired three women in the labor market. I recounted to them the hardships I had been forced to go through, aroused their indignation, and they vowed to seek justice for me.
After the preparations were completed, Lingling drove me to the chess and card room where my mother played cards every day.
When my mother saw this formation, she was like eating a fly, and her face turned pale.
Lingling found a chair and stood on a high place, and proclaimed loudly: "Come and see, everyone, this ruthless mother actually squeezed her daughter 300,000 yuan and didn't pay it back, causing her daughter to fall into a marriage crisis and even want to commit suicide." Now, the huge amount of money allocated from the demolition is not given to my daughter, which is really a loss of conscience!”
The three women vividly depicted my plight and indicted my mother's crimes. Coupled with the fact that I did have evidence of the transfer and an IOU, after a while, my mother became the target of public criticism and was shouted and beaten by everyone.
My mom escaped from the card room and returned home. Lingling followed and arrived at my door, where she told the three women to continue their "work" until dark. My door was filled with curious crowds of people who gave my mom sympathetic glances and pointed at them.
However, my brother never showed up during the whole process.
In the evening, when Lingling and I were eating snail noodles and drinking iced Coke, we felt a little relieved.
Today is the first day and it works out well. If it lasts for another three days, your mother will almost have to admit it, and then see what face she has to continue to be a demon. ”
Sure enough, three days later, my mother couldn't bear it anymore and called me ** to express her willingness to discuss the demolition money.
Talk about it!Return the 300,000 first, otherwise don't talk about it. Tomorrow we will go to the city to find your brother!Lingling said in a resolute tone.
Lingling took out the loudspeaker she had prepared in advance, printed out the transfer records and IOUs into a stack, and asked the three women to distribute them to my brother's community and work. Even my brother's daughter-in-law's unit didn't let it go.
I waited with Lingling at the door of my brother's house, and when my brother saw me, his eyes were fierce, as if a hungry wolf was about to pounce on me and bite me.
Lingling stood in front of me, crossed her hands on her hips, and made an impassioned speech with the loudspeaker she had prepared earlier.
You conscienceless!Since you were a child, your sister has always let you. She went to work before she went to college, she saved money for your education, and she also broke the bank to buy you a house and a car. Now that the family is going to break up, you don't pay back the money, and even want to monopolize the demolition money that should have belonged to your sister, are you still a person?
Of course you're not human!You refused to save your biological father even at a life-and-death moment, and watched him die!What a sin!Can you sleep peacefully at night?Aren't you afraid that your dad will come to you in a dream?Of course, people without conscience are not afraid!People like you deserve to get married?What a shame!People are doing it, the sky is watching, one day you will be punished!”
Lingling's accusation shocked me and the neighbors who were watching, and after she finished speaking, there were still people applauding, which suddenly reminded me of the scene where Yuan Qiongdan scolded the brothel boss in "Jiupin Sesame Official", but Lingling was more impassioned.
After being scolded by Lingling, the younger brother was speechless, and the younger brother and daughter-in-law next to him were so angry that their eyes rolled white, but they didn't dare to call the police, so they could only mumble in a low voice.
Today, I will talk about this, we are not unreasonable, but there is evidence and reason, and we have no choice but to do it. As long as you pay back the money, we won't make such a fuss. If you don't pay back the money for a day, we'll make trouble for a day. Debt repayment, as a matter of course!Lingling glanced at her watch, "I won't disturb the neighbors' rest today." She waved her hand, "Let's go!."”
Lingling and I worked hard for ten days in a row, while my brother and sister-in-law were unemployed, afraid to go out, and didn't even dare to order takeout. At the same time, my mother was talked about by the villagers.
Despite this, Lingling is still full of energy, wearing black every day, with very sharp eyeliner, and tirelessly expressing her dissatisfaction at the door of her brother's house.
Today is the tenth day, and I tell you, I have recorded it all. Now that I am so developed, as long as I post it on the Internet, people in all China will know about it. Look at how you are still based on society in this life, no matter how shameless you are, the law cannot be ignored!If we have solid evidence, even if we go to court, we will definitely win!”
The door slowly opened, and the younger brother and sister-in-law had dark eyes, and said with a tired face: "Today I will transfer 300,000 yuan to you, and the demolition money will also be distributed to you according to the regulations, please stop making trouble." ”
Once the money arrives, we take it. ”
In the afternoon, I finally ushered in the text message from the bank, and I was so excited that I burst into tears, and I couldn't wait to take a screenshot to show Zheng Guangmin.
I sold 300,000 yuan to relieve my brother's marriage debt, but he didn't pay it back, and I carefully planned to repay the debt.
I managed to protect my marriage, and it was really not easy.
In the evening, I invited Lingling to enjoy a sumptuous dinner with her.
Cheers!Sure enough, you are right, we must be more ruthless than they are when dealing with traitors. ”
You should move your hukou back as soon as possible, and we don't dare to reduce your demolition money in this turmoil. At that time, you will be a rich woman with a little wealth. ”
Two months later, I finally got the money I was entitled to. And my mother and my brother told me that they would never associate with me again. I didn't have too many emotional swings about their decision, and the family relationships that I had worked so hard to maintain were suddenly light.
I often wonder why some people who have been tormented by their families of origin are reluctant to leave
Because sometimes it is not the family of origin that actively influences you, but the influence of your choice of family of origin.