"Small saying, big wisdom".Although the old saying is easy to understand, it contains important truths in life.
These sayings are not all superstitions, many come fromThe wisdom of our ancestorsThe statement they have summed up based on life experience is scientific to a certain extent.
Among them, in terms of home, there is such a saying:"There are three emptiness in the family, and the children and grandchildren are poor for generations".。So what exactly does this phrase mean?
From ancient times to the present, there is a saying in China called"The people take food as the sky".We attach great importance to food, perhaps because the ancients had a lot of starvation experiences, so they cherish and cherish food very much.
The ancients used to say"The kitchen is not empty" actually means that the kitchen cannot lack food, grain and oilBecause these things are the things we rely on for survival, the kitchen is also the most fireworks place in the family.
A family lives a very happy life, which is inextricably linked to the kitchenThe small kitchen is full of pots and pans, rice, flour, grain and oilAnd everything in the kitchen is cleaned up without any grease stains.
Such a scene can fully show that the economic conditions of this family are very good, and the children and grandchildren are full and live a very happy lifeIf a family's kitchen is empty, then it means that the family is having a hard time、The family is not happy at all。
When we visit a family, we don't need to look at how luxurious the living room ornaments are, we only need to look at the kitchen of the family to know how their life is.
So since ancient times, people have believedThere can be no vacancy in the kitchenIf there is a vacancy in a kitchen, then the family's standard of living has reached a very poor level, and the only hope for the family is the child, and if the child does not have enough to eat, he will not have the strength to read and Xi.
If you don't study, you can only be poor for the rest of your life, so many families are very poor for generations, so the kitchen must not be empty, and there is such a word in the decoration of the house"Golden Kitchen Silver Cabinet".The design of the kitchen has always been important.
Only a reasonable kitchen line and complete kitchenware can cook delicious dishes, and the kitchen is also a place where you can feel the warmthChildren in the family go to the kitchen with their parents to cook in their daily lives and feel the joy brought by the kitchen
In the process of cooking with children, they can feel it togetherJoy, happiness, subtly the child will form his common consciousness, and naturally learn what he can't learn from books.
Therefore, the kitchen at home should not be empty, and if you have children, you must experience the happy moment brought by the kitchen with your children!
The study room is in the family, different from several other rooms, and the study room can be based on your preferencesArbitrary modificationsFor the average family, the study room is mainly used for learning Xi knowledge and work.
The study at home is the place where we usually recharge"There is Yan Ruyu in the book, and there is a ** house in the book".The study room is of great significance to many people.
The study of the ancient literati didn't really care about itThe environment, the atmosphereIn the eyes of many literati, the study is far away from the personal world of skill, the poet Lu You, who is over eighty years old, is the most college thing in his later years, that is, in the small room of the knee and such as the curved humerus pillow flow, you can enjoy the joy of reading, it is true that it is "very gratifying".
In modern times, the study is a solitary place in our lives, and many office workers are running around for work, and the busier the times, the more important the quiet place is.
There can be no vacancy in the study, especially the books, as the ancients said"Read a book a hundred times, and you will see its meaning."Reading books can not only acquire knowledge, but also broaden their horizons and enable people to learn to think independently.
People who like to read can think about problems from different angles, and when faced with the same problem, people who read often and those who don't read often will have different ideas when facing the problem.
When a person is in a difficult situation, if there is no solution to the problem in real life, we might as well goFind out in the bookIn this modern society, knowledge is power, and learning Xi is the most important task in life.
Looking back at the history of mankind, there are manyImportant inventions and innovations are inspired and thought in the studyIf there is no study at home, then human creativity and thinking will be limited.
In the family, the study room is a place that can educate children, because in the living room, children can only turn off the TV education when they can watch TV to educate children, and children will have a rebellious mentality and do not listen to you at all.
Educate the child at the dinner table, and the child is likely to be angryThrow chopsticks and leaveTherefore, the study room is the best place to educate children, and study education is very important for the development of future generations and the prosperity of the family, so if there is no study room in the family, it can be seen that they do not attach importance to their children's learning Xi.
A bookshelf should be installed in the study room at homeNo matter how big the bookshelf is, it must not be empty, buy some books that you usually like to read, and when you get off work, you can go to the study room with your children to read and Xi, which not only enhances the relationship between relatives, but also strengthens the education of children.
It is not difficult for us to find in life that children like to read, they have strong language skills, not only can speak well but also have strong expression skills, Reading is a good Xi that affects a lifetime, this Xi must be cultivated from an early age, buy more useful books in the child's study, and accompany the child to appreciate the knowledge in the book.
The living room is the middle row and face of a family, and it is also the most lively place in the home, whenever there are foreign guests visiting, the living room is the best place to entertain, and the living room is also responsible forDining room, kitchen, bedroom, study, toilet and balconyCommunicate.
The good layout of the living room can be seen in the family'sTaste, connotation and cultivationIn a house, the living room and bedroom are two separate spaces, one outside and one inside.
If there is nothing in the living room, then the home will be presentEmpty and deserted atmosphere,It is also not conducive to strengthening the relationship with the family, when we come home from a day of work, we just want to lie down on the couch immediately to rest, watch TV on the couch and play with the children.
In ancient times, the ancients attached great importance to the layout of items in the living room, such as the works of Gu Hongzhong, a painter of the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms"Han Xizai's Night Banquet"., vividly depicts the banquet scene of Han Xizai's mansion, which depicts the furnishings, people's posture and atmosphere of the living room in detail.
in this painting"Horn chair".Even today, it is not outdated, although there are not many ornaments in the living room in the painting, but the living room is still full of furniture.
The ancients were also quite particular about the design of the living room, the living room should be set up in the first room after the door of the house, the ancients believed that if the living room is in the front, it means that the meaning of fortune and treasure, and if the living room is in the back, it means that the fortune is scattered.
Therefore, the living room is generally set up in the first room after entering the door, and one should be set up in the hall and the living roomEntrance hallThe entrance can provide a cushion for those who enter the door, and can also protect the privacy of the guests from being seen by outsiders.
The living room can't be empty, mainly because it's the heart of the family, the most important place, and good items and ornaments can give people a high-end feeling, and we can place them"Jade Ruyi"., because jade Ruyi is placed at home, it can not only play a role in beautifying furniture, but also has a good meaning.
You can also place a fish tank in the living room, which is particular about Taoism"Good is like water".The idea that water can moisten all things without showing itself, shows that people should learn the same quality as Xi water, but it should be noted that an empty fish tank must not be placed in the fish tank, which looks very incongruous, but not everything can be placed in the living room.
First of all, sharp objects should not be placed in the living room, such as swords or othersA sharp weapon with a thornThere are also some thorny plants that can't be kept in the living room, because every time the family passes by, they are very worried about hurting themselves.
For the safety of your family, don't show up in the living room.
The second is that valuables cannot be placed casually in the living room, because the living room is used to entertain guests, and if you put valuables in the living room in order to show off, you will be suspected of revealing your wealth, and most importantly, you will be jealous and envious.
If the guest is resting in the living room, while the living roomValuables have been lost, then the host will first think that the guest did it, and it will eventually hurt the harmony of the two families, so don't put valuables in the living room, just hide it yourself.
Discarded newspapers should not be placed in the living room, although there is no big problem in the living room, but it will have a certain impact on the family environment and health.
Old newspapers tend to collect dust and grow bacteriaIf the old newspaper is placed for a long time, it is not only difficult to clean up but also easy to accumulate dust, which will have a bad impact on the environment, and the old newspaper will also occupy valuable family space, affecting the cleanliness and beauty of the family.
In our daily life, we must pay attention to the choice of furniture and ornaments in the living room, so as not to make trouble for ourselves in the future.
Whether it is the living room, study or kitchen, the purpose of not leaving these rooms vacant is first of all to make the best use of things, and secondly, to create a good family environmentIf the study is empty, there will be a lack of ambition;If the kitchen is empty, there will be a lack of smoke.
There are three emptiness in the home, and the children and grandchildren will be poor for generations" refers to the three emptiness in fact, the kitchen, the living room and the study. These three positions are related to a family's popularity, fireworks and talent. If you want future generations to develop well, these three positions cannot be ignored.