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There are few updates these days because I have been anxious about the things that my child goes to school.
My daughter has been attending a 15-year bilingual school and has been sent to nursery since she was a child.
I really don't plan to let my children learn much Xi, but I want to spend more money, and the teacher can be careful and responsible.
The child is very fortunate to meet the homeroom teacher who likes the child very much and is well versed in the psychology of young children, and soon she will be able to understand the characteristics of each child and then communicate with the child according to the different performances of different children.
Even if it is a class, we are very satisfied, a beautiful young lady with a class of 97 years, lively and cheerful, deeply loved by the children.
Even the nursery staff are aunts who love their children very much.
Children go to school with peace of mind, parents will also feel at ease, children go to school well, and they will continue to attend this school until they graduate from high school, which is my plan.
But I really didn't expect that the child had just arrived in the middle school for the first semester, and the main class and deputy class resigned collectively.
We tried to communicate with the teacher, wanted to keep the teacher, and hoped to be able to bring the child to kindergarten to graduate, but we couldn't open our mouth when we learned about the teacher's grievances at school and the teacher's difficulty.
There is infighting, but it is rare that there is no infighting in the workplace.
There is also a sentence that three women in one play, think about the kindergarten women together, I don't know how many big dramas are staged.
But as parents, we think very simply, we appreciate good teachers, teachers that students like, and teachers who are recognized by the school (many times the whole school has shared teaching experience), but the school can't keep it.
When working, let the teacher rush ahead, let the family share the teaching experience, let the whole school follow the curriculum setting, but even the title of excellent teacher is not given to others, can get the honor of those who will be sloppy, may go abroad to plate some gold, such a teaching environment, is not a thriving trend.
It was because I lost confidence in school that I had the idea of transferring my child.
In fact, changing teachers is really a normal flow, but for ordinary families like us, if we begin to question the general environment of the school, we will consider the cost performance, tens of thousands a year, whether it is worth it, children are fooled to kindergarten graduation, every child is excellent, every child gets a certificate, but what is the point?
Both teachers are leaving, and the parents have lost their backbone all of a sudden.
In fact, to be honest, the children still play, because they have reached the middle class, the children are adaptable, and changing teachers is not a big problem for them.
It's the parents who are panicking, so the parents get together to talk about what to do.
Of course, everyone wanted to be able to keep the teacher, but after in-depth communication with the teacher, they found that they couldn't keep it at all, and the teacher was already chilled.
Maybe my personal emotions are more than the consideration of the child, I plan to transfer the child to a public school, my idea is very simple, after this incident, I feel that the teacher I approve of has been squeezed out, I am not in agreement with the school's philosophy, I don't need to spend so much money to put the child here, and it is not that there is no choice.
When talking about personal thoughts and plans, I talked about this idea, but I didn't expect other parents to stand up against me, and the reasons for opposition were:You are going from high to low, which is not good for the child's physical and mental health, the child will definitely not accept it, and the children in the public kindergarten are very skinny, bullying, your baby is so honest, are you sure
After the sentence is finished, I emo, and I don't know where to start dismantling, because there are too many problems in this paragraph.
Although my child goes to a private school, many of her friends who play in the community are in the public sector, and she never thinks that her school is very good, because I never instill in her that kind of thinking, some children do feel different when they wear school uniforms, but my child does not because she is not portrayed in this regard.
This has something to do with family education.
And when it comes to public school children, I was stunned for a while and silently flipped through a friend's circle of friends to them (in order to protect the child's privacy, I won't release it), and after reading it, they expressed their surprise, because it is safe to say that the whole presented by this child killed all his peers in this private school.
This has nothing to do with the school, the appearance of the child, the family is most likely the mother occupies the main factor.
Although my child was sent to this private school from a young age, her playmates in the community included classmates and public school childrenShe never had clear boundaries, nothing more than not attending the same school
However, I clearly felt that some of the children in my daughter's class, as well as the parents behind the children, had a very obvious sense of superiority, especially when wearing the school uniform.
Because everyone understands the school's fees, some superficial people will think that children go to school here, and their waists will be straightened, and the circle will be different.
Parents smear public school children in this way, on the one hand, because they are ignorant, probably because they are hearsay, and on the other hand, because of their own sense of superiority.
Because everyone is too nervous about children, it is understandable that they will be suspicious of the unknown environment, but really don't demonize public kindergartens.
Children in public kindergartens and children in private kindergartens have similar behavioral abilities, and the key is to see how parents guide and educate.
At this juncture, you will feel an invisible pressure, because there are many people who tell all kinds of possible outcomes, and even the results that they are sure of.
In fact, it is really simple, jumping out of the original circle and analyzing the pros and cons, the key is to depend on the child's personal wishes.
I would consider transferring my child to the next door because she knows a lot of friends here, and if not, if the result of the transfer is to put her in a completely unfamiliar environment, I will really consider the child's feelings, after all, the child is only 4 years old.
I hope that everyone is also, when it comes to whether to transfer children to schools, it is not so difficult to consider all aspects and block the voices of the outside world, everything is just a little more difficult at the beginning.