There is such a saying: If you care, trivial things can hurt you, if you are relieved, you will not be afraid of ups and downs. Life is to recognize and look down, but also to be persistent and brave, do your best in everything, and then go with the flow.
In fact, when you see a person clearly and do not expose it, let you hate a person and do not turn your face, you will understand that you are relieved, life in the world, there are always so many people who are not used to seeing you, in fact, being a man is like drinking tea, tea is just two attitudes, sinking, floating, drinking tea is only two postures, pick up, put down, life is like tea, Shen is calm, floating is relieved, and being a man can afford to let go.
Sally Rooney wrote in the "Chat Log":I no longer seem to be able to control what is happening or will happen. It was as if I had a long high fever and I had to lie down and wait for it to get better.
Sometimes, the only thing we can do is to be patient, wait for the person who loves you to slowly approach you, wait for the person you love to slowly like you, wait for the bad things to get better, wait for the good things to come to a better time, sometimes it may not be as good as it should be, but there are always other people or things that fill these gaps, so that what you lost will return to you in another form.
Don't compare ** when you buy it, don't regret it if you eat it, don't suspect it if you love it, don't denigrate it if you scatter it, everything is just paying for your choice, what price you have to pay for what you choose, even if you look at the wrong person, even if you are disappointed, even if it backfires, even if it hits the south wall, don't regret being good to anyone, and don't deny every decision you make. Affection is voluntary, no regrets, no encounters, and no debts are the best respect for yourself.
Recently, I brushed up on such a **: The daughter in the mother described how her mother comforted her anxiety, and the mother said this: Before the thing happened, you began to get entangled in anxiety, you have experienced the thing once, the thing happened You are experiencing this thing, you still can't let go of the relief when the thing happens, you have experienced it again, you have experienced it three times, tortured yourself three times, how much do you need to consume your spirit and energy in this matter, what about your other things, what about your other life?
Some netizens also commented: Worrying and worrying about anxiety in advance before bad things happen is equivalent to you encountering two bad things. If you want to torture yourself over and over again afterwards, it is equivalent to encountering countless times.
What life needs is to be able to afford to let go, what is needed is to look down and recognize clearly, what is needed is persistence and courage, not meaningless anxiety and entanglement.
Pessimism is to let us know the truth of the matter, can calmly make a more favorable choice, to avoid themselves to be hurt more, recognition is to let us have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, can more clearly guide our future life, perseverance and courage is so that we can have the confidence to choose for the person or thing we choose regardless of others, can be firm in their choice, can resolutely accept the outcome.
A lot of times most of our troubles come from thinking too much and doing too little. In this world, everyone snows, and each has its own obscurity and purity. No one will leave their worries and trivialities behind, patiently to understand your unwillingness and sorrow a little bit, instead of mutual suspicion, it is better to speak generously about your grievances, let the other party understand, understand your own gains and losses, let yourself understand, understand your future direction.
Life doesn't stand up to scrutiny, and everyone walks through it like this. Things come to comply, things come to conform and face;The future is not welcome, what has not happened yet, don't worry too much;At that time, it was not mixed, and I focused on doing the things of the moment;If you don't fall in love, there is no need to be nostalgic for things that have passed.
Life is like a train that can't go back, the past is just a station in life, it's over, even if it's nostalgic, it can't change anything, how the future journey is, no one knows and can't predict, anxiety and entanglement are meaningless, only the current scenery is the most real, and only the current journey is your real beginning
What you can afford is life, what you can put down is life, what you dare to persist in is what you love, and what you dare to pursue is what you want。Life should be vigorous, live a chic life, ride a horse and sing, the geometric picture of life or the red clay stove, the scene of three or five friends talking and happy, why can't it appear in your life?
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