My name is Lin Chen, an ordinary office worker, and my life is plain and orderly. Until I met her, the Sagittarius girl who made my life full of challenges and surprises.
Sagittarius girls are always so passionate and direct, they love freedom, like an arrow that shoots out, and never looks back. I, on the other hand, am a typical Gemini, sociable, thoughtful, and always curious about the unknown. I thought I could easily handle her enthusiasm, but I found out I was wrong.
The first time I met her was at an outdoor event organized by the company. She is like a cheerful elf, weaving through the crowd and illuminating everything around her. I'll admit that I was attracted to her and couldn't resist her charm.
However, from the beginning, I knew that there was a big difference in our personalities. She was so direct and enthusiastic, while I was so hesitant and fickle. I often felt like our conversation was like a war without gunpowder, and she always tried to get me to accept her point of view, and I always tried to make her understand my thoughts with my clever words.
Despite the difficulties, we started the relationship. I thought I was in control of the relationship, but I was wrong. I found that in my dealings with her, my double business often went offline.
Her words often confuse me. Her behavior is also often incomprehensible to me. I found that I was less and less able to understand her world. However, I was so attracted to her that I couldn't leave.
I began to study Sagittarius' personality traits and try to understand her patterns of behavior. I've found that Sagittarians love freedom and hate bondage. They like to express their thoughts and emotions directly. Their actions are often intentional and undisguised. I began to understand that her actions were not intentional, but were dictated by her character.
I started to change myself and adapt to her personality. I no longer try to change her, but try to understand her and accept her. I found that when I stopped trying to contradict her and convince her, our relationship became more harmonious.
However, I still get confused and upset from time to time. I found that I was becoming less and less like myself in this relationship. I began to wonder if I was doing something wrong and whether I should stick to my principles and ideas.
However, when I started to think deeply about it, I realized that it was a necessary path to growth. I have come to understand that everyone has their own personality and behavior patterns, and we need to learn to respect and understand each other's differences. I've come to understand that change isn't about pandering to others, it's about making yourself better.
Now, I'm still growing up with her Sagittarius. Our relationship remains full of challenges and surprises. But I'm no longer confused and upset. I know that as long as we respect, understand and accept each other, we can walk this challenging path together.
Finally, I would like to say to all my Gemini and Sagittarius friends: don't be afraid of your differences, because these differences make your relationship more colorful. As long as you respect, understand and accept each other, you will be able to walk this challenging path together and create a better future together.