My name is Wang Jin, an ordinary office worker, I have been working for several years, and I am in a complex workplace environment, and I have to deal with all kinds of people every day. Among them, there are my bosses, subordinates, and colleagues who are affectionately called "three aunts and six wives". It is said that the workplace is like a battlefield, but in my opinion, this is more like a big family, as long as you know how to behave in the world, everyone can become their own "own person".
I am a Libra, and perhaps it is precisely because of the characteristics of this sign that I can always be comfortable in the workplace. Libras are good at balancing relationships, they know how to read words and looks, and they can always find a balance with others. I'm always proud of that, because I know it's not something that everyone can do.
My story, perhaps, doesn't have too many thrilling moments, but every subtlety is full of suspense and challenges. Every interaction with people is like a psychological war, and I always try to make myself a winner. Not to win over others, but to earn their trust and respect.
Once, a senior employee in the company, Aunt Li, whom we all like to call "Sixth Wife" in private, needed to take a week off work because of an emergency at home. It wasn't a big deal in the first place, but Aunt Li had a project on hand that was about to expire, which made the entire department anxious. Seeing that everyone was worried about this matter, I took the initiative to stand up and expressed my willingness to take over Aunt Li's work. Even though I knew it meant a lot of pressure on me, I also knew it was an opportunity to show what I was capable of.
After a week of hard work, I successfully completed Aunt Li's project, and it was well received by the client. When I told Aunt Li the good news, she burst into tears with excitement, hugged me tightly and said, "You are really my relative!" "From that moment on, I deeply realized that being a person is not just a skill, but also an emotional communication.
In the workplace, I often face various challenges. Once, the general manager of the company was dissatisfied with one of my jobs and severely criticized me in public. It made me feel aggrieved, but I knew that I couldn't complain and justify it at this time, otherwise it would only make things worse. So, I chose silence and acceptance. After the general manager calmed down, I took the initiative to find him, admitted my mistake, and proposed a plan for improvement. After reading my plan, the general manager nodded and said, "You are a responsible employee." "Since then, his attitude towards me has changed a lot and our relationship has become more harmonious.
After all these years of professional experience, I have deeply realized the importance of being a person. Whether we are dealing with three aunts and six mothers-in-law or superiors and subordinates, as long as we treat them sincerely, understand them, and help them solve problems and difficulties, then we will definitely be able to win their trust and respect and become their "own people". And all this is inseparable from our Libra's keen observation and ability to balance various relationships.
Finally, I would like to say that no matter what kind of environment we are in, what kind of challenges we face, as long as we know how to behave in the world, we will definitely be able to find our own place and value in this world. I hope that every reader can be like a fish in water in the workplace and become the "own person" who everyone likes. Bless you all!