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Tao Te Ching has clouds:
"The way of heaven is to benefit but not harm;The way of the saint is indisputable. ”
The true way of heaven lies in benefiting all things, following the law, and never harming all things.
Like a true saint, it is about action, not about fighting.
Many times, once you are reluctant, you are reckless, you lose your sense of proportion, you have no awe, and you don't understand the pattern.
Then, the heart will lose the way of heaven, and the boundaries will be discarded as a human being.
Then in reality, it must be more and more difficult to walk, more and more difficult.
Not strong, measured
It is said, "Stand in one place, but not too closely, for the pillars of the temple are also set apart on both sides, and oaks and pines do not grow in the shade of each other." ”
In anything, don't be reckless, you must be measured, and any relationship must have a distance in order to grow healthily.
Between people, between people and nature, it is also necessary to maintain proportions and maintain boundaries.
Because the true way of heaven is to be able to fulfill each other and to respect each other.
Whether it is fulfillment or respect, it is actually to let everyone retain a sense of distance in their hearts.
With a sense of distance, everything can grow in harmony.
As Schopenhauer said:"People, like hedgehogs in the cold of winter, will hurt if they get too close, and cold if they are too far away. ”
You know, no matter how close the relationship is, even if human beings want to control nature, nature cannot obey it.
Between man and nature, we can only be in harmony with each other, respect to move forward, in the face of passive nature, everyone always thinks that they can take the initiative to transform and use.
As everyone knows, nature also has its own way of resistance, tsunamis, ** glacier melting, etc., there are always bad weather to create disasters, so that human beings are in awe.
The Romance of the Three Kingdoms has clouds:
"It can be bent to stretch, let it be gained, weak to be strong, and rarely succeeded. ”
We must not be reckless, let alone think that we can control nature and crush everything.
Even if his ability is getting stronger and his wisdom is getting higher and higher, he can't lose his awe of the Heavenly Dao, let alone be reckless, or even destroy everything without measure.
Only by not being strong, respecting the law, and retaining awe can make your life stable and peaceful.
Know how to show weakness, don't be arrogant
Showing weakness is not fragility, let alone cowardice.
Only those who are truly strong will show weakness, understand how to show weakness, and be willing to show weakness.
People who show weakness are often people who are strong in their hearts, because they know how to bow their heads in time, lower their posture, maintain humility, and maintain humility.
In this way, refuse to be arrogant, quit pride, and treat everything equally.
This is also the wisdom of the Heavenly Dao.
As the writer Li Kang once said:"The wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it;Heaped out of the shore, the flow will be turbulent;Walk above men, and the crowd will not. ”
As the saying goes: too rigid and easy to break, too strong, too strong, will appear self-righteous, will feel invincible.
But in fact, the way of heaven is all one thing and one thing, and no one is always strong, just like no one can live forever.
There is reincarnation in the way of heaven, there is a specialization in the art industry, and a person can only return to a low-key position, know how to show weakness, see his own insignificance, and realize the shortness of life.
In this way, you will quit arrogance, truly be able to bend and stretch, and be sober while being confused and doing things.
Caigen Tan has clouds:
"Hiding ingenuity in clumsiness, using obscurity and clarity, clear in turbidity, and bending for stretching. ”
People with awe and humility know how to be simple and conservative, low-key and introverted, like ripe rice, who know how to bend over and not show mountain dew.
It's like "Three Kingdoms" has clouds:
"It can be bent to stretch, let it be gained, weak to be strong, and rarely succeeded.
In this way, know how to bow your head, dare to bow your head, and are willing to bow your head, you will show weakness, have no arrogance, bury your posture in the dust, and bloom a flower.
Less argumentation, know the pattern
In the final analysis, the reason why people argue, why they entangle, and why they can't let go is because the pattern is too shallow.
You have to understand that people get along with each other, people get along with the universe, they are closely related, there is always a connection.
However, if you blindly entangle yourself and never let go, you will be consumed endlessly.
Do not argue, curb your desire to express yourself in time, constantly strengthen yourself, and make your personality independent.
Learn not to argue, not to argue with others, not to be willing to entangle yourself, and not to be entangled with everything, so that you can ensure a stable state of mind and emotional stability.
Then, life is also stable.
Tao Te Ching Cloud :
"Water is good for all things. ”
The less a person argues, the more he can support the pattern, and the more he can move towards introspection and expand his cognition.
In this way, once the underlying logic between the poor and the rich is realized, then the level of being a human being is high.
In this way, we will naturally be able to use the wisdom of Heaven and come up with humane perceptions, and in reality, we will not fight, argue, or win or lose.
Finally, only by revering the way of heaven can you live calmly, open-mindedly, soberly, and chic.