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I've heard a heart-piercing saying:
"In the adult world, who doesn't break down and cry while wiping away their tears and moving on with life. ”
In fact, people have been cultivating all their lives, and they all rely on cultivation.
Only by cultivating a strong mentality, cultivating a strong ability, and cultivating a strong character.
In this way, I have truly cultivated my style, my confidence, and my self-confidence.
Ernest Hemingway said:
"A man is not born to be defeated, you can destroy him, but you can't defeat him. ”
In this life, you must take the initiative to polish yourself, work hard to cultivate yourself, and truly make yourself more and more confident and powerful, and live a good life.
In the end, rely on your own cultivation to achieve your own every day, every hour, every moment.
Cultivate the mentality
If a person has a good attitude, then in the process of life, it is better to get thousands of good medicines.
In this life, no one can escape the interference of the world, and no one can avoid all kinds of troubles and pains.
Life is impermanent, life is frustrated, and there are always some people who will fall into the dark quagmire because of emotional failure, workplace failure, coupled with family conflicts, etc.
In the face of such a predicament, we can only fight for the mentality, only by cultivating the mentality of the strong, and showing an optimistic state, can we truly get out of the trough and learn to be relieved.
I like what Jiang Xun said:
"Embracing impermanence is the healthiest and most positive state of life. ”
Face life honestly, accept the present calmly, even if impermanence and changes exist, you must face it bravely and deal with it calmly.
Only by showing a positive attitude and cultivating personal personality charm can you help yourself thrive.
A truly strong person will definitely turn all the blows and pains in his life into nutrients for his own growth, and let everything become the nutrients of life.
I like a sentence very much: smile at everything, people live in this world is a breath, no matter what difficulties encountered, as long as I can laugh, I will win this life.
If you have the right mentality, life will be smooth.
When the mentality is stable, life can be stable.
When the mentality is set, the moment can be quiet.
Cultivation ability
To live, people need material conditions, material security, and more importantly, material support.
Therefore, it is also destined that everyone should cultivate their own abilities.
Because of their own ability, relying on their own real ability and talent, they can make their lives sufficiently guaranteed, and they can also ensure that the people they care about can live a better life.
If there is no security in life, then everything is nonsense, everything is nonsense.
Only by making oneself capable of becoming enough to support various expenses of one's daily life, and being able to make one's life more and more independent and affluent, can one have enough confidence and self-confidence to create a more valuable life.
Obviously, if we are in a difficult situation in life, then the question that comes to our mind immediately is that it is time to cultivate our abilities.
Peter Shengji said in The Fifth Discipline:
"Many of the problems we face today are due to yesterday's solutions. ”
Indeed, the more inadequate a person's ability is, the more fragile he is, and the weaker he is, the easier it is for life to be feathers and dogs.
Only by soberly allowing yourself to polish your powerful abilities and really relying on yourself to support yourself, then you will have more and more powerful strength to be worthy of the good luck that follows.
A truly powerful person must be a capable person, and this ability will allow them not to rush even if they encounter an emergency, and even if they encounter a major event, they will not be helpless.
In this way, in the face of the rest of his life, he will not be timid, let alone calculated, but will live more and more atmospheric and patterned.
Cultivating character
To be a man and do things, ability is the lower limit, and character is the upper limit.
What is character?A sentence said by the writer Mr. Liang Xiaosheng is actually a good interpretation of character:
"Rooted in the cultivation of the heart;Self-consciousness that does not need to be reminded;Freedom premised on constraints;Kindness for the sake of others. ”
When a person lives, character is the hole card of his life.
If this hole card is rotten, then no matter which way you go, this road is not passable, no matter how you go to **, it is an obstacle and a dilemma.
Only by cultivating the character that has passed the test and creating an outstanding character can we stabilize the cornerstone of life.
At the same time, only then can you get more and more recognition, and the road of life can be wider and smoother.
In fact, this life is very short, so only when you let yourself choose the right path and go on can you see the light and feel the meaning.
Otherwise, if the character is crooked, if the personality is down, then life will definitely fall apart, and it will be dark to the **.
Therefore, cultivating the character that has passed the test and won the respect and recognition of others will actually become more and more transparent and hopeful in our life.
Along the way, we can go more and more energetically, more and more happily, and more and more happy.