Recently, I've been thinking about a question: What kind of life is a happy life?Is it a wealth of money, or fame and fortune?Is it the pursuit of wealth and wealth, or to spend a life ordinary?
In the past, I envied the rich people who lived in luxurious villas, drove expensive luxury cars, wore designer clothes, and went out to high-end occasions ......Their lives are full of luxury and enjoyment.
However, I have also heard many complaints from rich people. In order to make money, they have to work more than ten hours a day, have no time to spend with their families, no time to rest, no time to do what they like......Their lives are full of stress and exhaustion.
Moreover, I have also seen many tragedies of rich people. In order to fight for property, they turned against each other, husband and wife divorced, and father and son became ......enemiesTheir lives are full of calculations and intrigue.
Perhaps, everyone's definition of happiness is different. Some people think that having money is happiness, some people think that having love is happiness, and some people think that having freedom is happiness......
I used to be an ambitious person who always sought greater success and higher status. I believe that only by having wealth can we live a truly happy life. So I worked hard and kept pushing my limits, hoping to achieve my dream as soon as possible.
However, as time went on, I gradually discovered that this pursuit did not bring me real satisfaction and joy. On the contrary, it made me feel more and more tired and anxious, and something seemed to be going on in my body. I began to realize that happiness is not about having much wealth and status, but about living a life that suits me.
Occasionally I see a famous quote that says, "The true meaning of life is the pursuit of happiness and joy, not the pursuit of wealth and status." This sentence touched me deeply and made me start to rethink my life.
I think, since you have to fight with your life, you might as well live a small life. I began to re-examine my life and try to find the things that would make me feel happy and fulfilled. I found that there are many beautiful things in life, such as cooking with my family, watching movies, going for a walk, chatting with friends, traveling, tasting food, and so on.
I began to learn to slow down and enjoy every moment of my life. I learned to appreciate the beauty of nature and feel the warmth of the sun, breeze and rain. I learned to listen to my inner voice and pay attention to my body and emotions. I learned to share my joys and worries with the people around me and to build real relationships.
Now, I no longer regard pouring wealth as my goal, but taking living a good life as my life philosophy. I believe that only on the basis of living a good life can we better pursue our dreams and goals.
But I feel that happiness is not measured by money and material things, but by heart and emotion.
If you sacrifice your health, family, and happiness in pursuit of wealth, you may find yourself missing something more important when you reach your goal.
If you hurt your loved ones, friends, and conscience in the fight for fame and fortune, you may feel lonely and guilty when you succeed.
If you ignore your needs, feelings, and flaws in the pursuit of perfection, you may find yourself unhappy when you meet your standards. Inspirational and positive energy
Life is not a race, it's a journey. You don't need to compare yourself with others, you don't need to strive for perfection, you just need to follow your own pace and preferences, go your own way, and live your own life. We don't have to use our lives to fight for wealth and wealth, as long as we feel it with our hearts, we will find that happiness is actually all around us.
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