Everything is charming, continue to update high-quality emotional articles, including book recommendations and psychological knowledge, thank you for your attention.As the saying goes: it is difficult to paint the skin and the tiger, and it is difficult to draw the bones, and you don't know the heart when you know the face.
Some people, on the surface, are polite to you and say all the good things, but behind the scenes, they will have a lot of slander against you, and even ** knives.
Especially a woman who is greedy for money and lustful, puts her own interests first and doesn't care about the life or death of others at all.
Therefore, they are very kind to you on the surface, and even make you think that she likes you, but in fact, they have other purposes, and they cannot escape the following three.
People like to be noticed and praised, so women often feel that they are excellent because they are pursued by men.
But in reality, it's an illusion, or a value that's not right enough.
The charm of women should not be reflected the more men like it, but should be independent and sober and have the freedom to choose life.
But in real life, there are still many women who like to step on multiple boats, have ambiguous relationships with multiple men, and then have a self-righteous posture.
When I was working in a small shop, I had a female colleague who was like that. She said bad things about her suitor: "This man is really too sloppy, I can't be with him." ”
But while accepting the fruit cake sent to her by her suitor, when she was traveling, she also took the initiative to ask the man to take her to the airport.
At the same time, the female colleague has many other spare tires, and other colleagues praise her for being powerful, and she doesn't feel how despicable this approach is, and she is very arrogant when she plays with other people's sincerity.
In fact, there are two kinds of people in this world: one is good at taking advantage of others;The other type of person is often taken advantage of by others.
However, if a person is squeezed out of value, it is as pitiful as an orange that has been squeezed out of juice and will end up in the trash.
A woman who is greedy for money and lustful especially likes to play with people's hearts, watching the man she looks down on stand up for her, and finally chooses a better man.
It's like the story of Mr. Chen, a consultant: I have liked her since I was in school. But I'm relatively short, **dark, and my family conditions are average. She categorically rejected me in front of many people, but if there was anything she wanted to help with, she would still be the first to come to me. I don't understand what she did, does it mean that there is still hope for me and her?
Actually, there is little hope. Because, a woman who looks down on you from the bottom of her heart can't be with you. Women have a strong psychology in love, and will only develop a relationship with the strong.
But women look down on men, belittle men in all kinds of ways, and associate with them, obviously in order to take advantage of them.
In ancient times, there was an idiom called "East Food and West Lodging", which tells such a story:
When there was a young and beautiful woman in the country of Qi to be married, a rich and noble family in the east came to propose marriage, saying that his family was very rich, but the son was a little ugly. The next day, the poor family in the west also came to propose marriage, saying that although their family was poor, the son was very handsome.
The woman's parents could not make up their minds, but the woman wanted to eat at the east house and then go to the west house to sleep at night.
And such a greedy woman will often do things like riding a donkey to find a horse. is to hang a man who he is not really in love with, or even look down on, to make up for the lack of feelings at the moment.
But as long as she finds a better person, she will immediately leave the man who is not good enough, and let down the person who has been with her for a long time and has done a lot for her.
Today's topic
What do you think: what is the purpose of a woman looking down on you and still having an affair with you?