I, 30-year-old Ms. Ban, have been married for a year. After we got married, my husband and I moved into the matrimonial house we bought together. Originally, my parents had planned to be in mineWeddingsI was given a dowry room, but when my parents asked the man for 66,000Bride price, but my husband's family refused to pay. This made my parents very angry because they felt that the man was not keeping his word. Although they don't mindBride pricebut they don't think it's worth giving preferential treatment for this dishonest behavior. I was also very angry at the time, but based on our relationship and good relationship over the years, I chose to put up with it.
However, life after marriage did not go as expected. After only half a month, my husband invited his sister to move in with us. The reason was that she was in the cityGo to college, the divorce room is very close, convenient. However, I am deeply dissatisfied with this decision. Because my relationship with my sister-in-law has always been bad, she is contrived and likes to tell right and wrong. I knew that if I lived with her, there would be a lot of trouble in the family. But because my husband doted on my sister excessively, I eventually had to compromise. As expected, after my sister-in-law moved in, she bullied me every day and never considered my feelings. She always ignored me, thinking that I should help her with her living expenses and school fees, and even worse, she used me as a nanny again and again. She often brought some of her classmates home as guests, and I had to serve them personally, and what made me even more unacceptable was that they often treated me as an outsider and said things that looked down on me and my husband. I complained to my husband many times and asked my sister-in-law to move out. However, my husband has always been unwilling, always thinking that his sister is a family member and can't do this to her. He didn't know that the existence of my sister-in-law made me feel frustrated and aggrieved every day.
One day, my sister-in-law suddenly asked for my master bedroom to be moved to her, and her request was reasonable, because she thought that her brother had bought the house, so she had the right to ask for the master bedroom. She also threatened to tell her brother that I was bullying her if I didn't get along. I slammed the door and left home in a fit of rage. I chose to go back to my parents' house because I didn't want to face my husband and sister-in-law anymore, they upset me. For a period of time after leaving, the family became a mess, and my husband's life was not good, because he had to give money to his parents every month, so he was very tight on money, and my sister-in-law did not have my subsidy, and her life became difficult.
She had been estranged from her classmates before, because she used to use money to entertain guests, and her friends chose to stay away from her. She felt very sad because of this, and in order to be able to get my financial support again, and hoped that someone would cling to her, she called ** and asked me to go back, saying "this family can't live without you". But I've had enough, and I'm not going to go back and endure more grievances. I responded directly: "No, you two can live, this family has brought me too many grievances, I think it is the best choice not to go back, let you live your own life." "Then I hung up**. Soon after, I opted for divorce.
Women are in the face of bad thingsMarriage, learn to stop losses in time, don't drag the mud, and don't give the other party a chance, because insatiable people will never cherish it. No matter how many chances are given to him, he will not change. So, be brave enough to choose to leave so that you can live a better life.