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Zhou Guoping said: "The best state of life is rich quiet. ”
When people reach middle age, the lead is washed away, and the years are quiet. We began to reflect, learn to savor the passage of time in silence, and feel the beauty of life. We begin to understand that true happiness is not about having a lot of wealth, but about having a healthy body, a harmonious family, a career that we love, and a group of close friends. We begin to learn to slow down, no longer being pushed by time, but to slow down, to enjoy the scenery around us, to listen to our inner voice.
When people reach middle age, they must learn to talk to themselves
Learning to talk to yourself is an important awakening for middle-aged people on the road of life. On the road of life, we have experienced many ups and downs, and we have also accumulated rich life experience and wisdom. However, many times, we ignore our own inner needs and values, and neglect to have a dialogue with ourselves. Dialogue with others is a way to understand the outside world;Dialogue with yourself is a necessary process to understand yourself and care for yourself. Maybe we've tried, maybe we've asked in the dark, but for one reason or another, the conversation doesn't reach the depths of the soul. As everyone knows, this kind of self-reflection and reflection can make people re-examine their past behaviors and choices, adjust their mentality, correct their direction, and pursue a higher state of life. Entering middle age means that you have gone halfway through and have a wealth of life experience. The inner awakening at this moment allows middle-aged people to face the past honestly, accept themselves tolerantly, and reap the beauty of life. And this beauty is the wisdom and strength that comes from talking to yourself.
When people reach middle age, they must learn to win with others
The famous philosopher Martin Buber said, "All real life happens between people." "People are social creatures, and interacting with others is an important part of life. Interacting with others not only helps us build relationships, but also promotes our mental, emotional, and cognitive development. Therefore, we should value sincere communication with others. When people reach middle age, they no longer have any reason to complain about others, what is not good, what is not as expected, they have to rely on themselves to change. If the environment of the unit is not good, we can start to change from the people around us, take the initiative to pay attention to the needs and feelings of colleagues, actively participate in team activities, enhance mutual understanding and trust, and jointly create a positive and harmonious working atmosphere. If the atmosphere of the original family is not good, we can also start from ourselves, take the initiative to ask for warmth, communicate sincerely, and create a warm home.
When people reach middle age, they must learn to live in harmony with nature
The English philosopher Aldus Huxley said, "Man is not the master of nature, but part of the earth's ecosystem." "Human beings are born from nature and will eventually return to nature. Many middle-aged people like to make tea around the stove and sit and talk, but these are only forms, not ends. The real goal is to learn to appreciate the beauty of nature, understand the laws of nature, and learn to respect and protect nature. In the fragrance of tea, we can feel the freshness and tranquility of nature, and in the discussion with like-minded friends, we can think about the relationship between man and nature, and think about the relationship between ourselves and others. Sometimes, you don't have to fight for everything. Sometimes, appropriate concessions and compromises can make us face life more calmly, facing difficulties and challenges. When we are questioned, slandered, and ridiculed, as long as our mentality is calm, then there is no need for self-proof. Because when people reach middle age, they are saints and kings outside, so there is no need to say much.
When people reach middle age, they are just like autumn, they don't dwell on the past, and they don't miss the past. The poet Rabindranath Tagore said: "Leave the past to the past, and we will greet the sunshine of the future with a smile." ”
It is, and it should be.