The lack of marriage and childbearing among young people is a complex social phenomenon that cannot be simply categorized as sober or unconscious. Different people have different reasons and motivations, which will be analyzed from multiple perspectives below:
1.Changes in social attitudes: With the development and progress of society, people's concepts about marriage and childbearing have changed. The traditional belief that marriage and childbearing is the only way to go in life, but today's young people pay more attention to personal freedom and choice. They may think that marriage and childbearing are no longer necessary stages of life, but are decided according to their own wishes and circumstances. This change in perception is influenced by a variety of factors such as culture, education, and **.
2.Economic pressures: In modern society, marriage and childbirth often require greater financial pressure. Young people may choose not to marry and have children because they fear they will not be able to afford the costs of marriage and childcare. Especially in some cities with high housing prices and high prices, this pressure is even more obvious. Some young people may want to consider marriage and childbearing after they have achieved something in their careers to alleviate financial pressure.
3.Personal pursuits: Diversity in modern society allows everyone to have more opportunities and choices. Young people may be more willing to pursue their own interests and personal goals rather than making marriage and childbearing the center of their lives. They may think that marrying and having children will limit their freedom and independence, so they choose not to marry and have children in order to pursue their dreams and goals.
4.Gender equality: With the spread of gender equality, women are no longer seen as the sole responsible persons for marriage and childbearing. Men are also more focused on their careers and personal pursuits, and are not willing to sacrifice their freedom and career development for marriage and parenting. In such cases, young people may think that marriage and childbearing are no longer an inevitable choice for both men and women, but are decided according to their personal wishes and circumstances.
5.Marital phobia: Some young people have a fear of marriage, which may be due to unstable family relationships, high expectations of married life, or concerns about a partner. In such cases, young people may choose not to marry or have children because they are afraid of the failure of the marriage or are unwilling to take on the responsibilities that come with it.
6.Lack of responsibility: Some young people may lack a sense of responsibility for marriage and parenting, believing that they are not ready to take on the responsibilities of the family. In this case, they may wish to wait until they are mature to consider marriage and childbearing to ensure that they are able to take on the responsibilities of the family.
7.Cultural influences: Some cultural factors may also influence young people's perceptions of marriage. For example, in some Asian countries, families have higher expectations of the individual, while young people may want to pursue their careers and personal freedoms and are reluctant to be tied to their families too early.
To sum up, there are various reasons why young people do not marry and have children, including factors such as changes in social concepts, economic pressure, personal pursuits, etc., as well as cultural background, personal psychology and other factors. Therefore, we cannot simply classify this phenomenon as lucid or unsober. Every young person has their own motivations and considerations, and we should respect their choices and lifestyles. At the same time, society should also provide more support and help to reduce the pressure on young people in marriage and childbearing, and help them better balance the relationship between themselves and their families.