The girl posted the chat history of the mother and daughter, and the teasing and testing of the mother's love would only move her mouth
The family is the best place for mental illness, and some psychologists say that half an hour by the mother's side is equivalent to six psychological consultations, some agree with this statement, and some scoff at it.
Some people grow up under the care of their parents, go home when they are tired, go home when they are hungry, go home when they are homesick, and home will always be home. For some people, growing up means running away from home.
The girl recorded the conversation between her and her mom on social platforms. It can be seen that both people wanted to repair their relationship with each other, but eventually gave up.
The girl in the sun and the mother in the chat log, just moved her mouth from her mother's love, and she couldn't stand the little **.
The girl was working in the field, and her mother sent a message of greetings, saying that the money was enough to spend something, and the money was not enough to tell the family. She also deliberately said that although she didn't know how to communicate, love was all around her.
The girl also said that she had saved enough money before, and she would tell her family when she found a job. It can be seen from this conversation that when the two people talk, there is a very polite sense of alienation, which is not like a good mother-daughter relationship.
But this light-hearted relationship and promise of help brought a glimmer of light to her life. Later, the girl was having a hard time and wanted to borrow $2,000 to pay the rent and pay it back next month.
She remembered that her mother had said before that it was not easy to leave home if she didn't have enough money. Then the girl spoke, her mother didn't say anything, and directly sent a paragraph**, the theme is: Your parents don't owe you, only you owe your parents.
This ** is in stark contrast to the previous silence. The girl also realized what that meant, and she said she wanted to do something about it, but was met with a cold response from her mother.
The girl said that she did not understand, because she had already made it clear that everything was fine. But why did she retreat when it came time to get serious? Could it be that the motherly love she can get is limited to verbal promises that will not stand the test?
After the conversation transcript was uploaded, we also saw comments from netizens. This situation is not unique, and it also shows why there are such parents and what their mentality is.
Selfish people look at everyone as selfish.
Below the girls, there are a lot of netizens commenting on the people around Mom and Dad and the verbal promises they get. They don't want to take any responsibility, but they want their children to know that Mom and Dad love them.
Their love is only in words, and no amount of money is of any use. For example, on her birthday, her mother gave her 10,000 yuan, which was a happy thing, but after giving it to her, she kept saying that she was very poor and had no money.
The words were too obvious, and the girls returned the money with a sense of humor, and the mother said that she didn't mean it, but she didn't give any more money and gladly accepted it. What is said and what is done is completely inconsistent.
There are also girls who say that after buying a car or a house, their parents will say:"Why didn't you say it earlier, if you said it earlier, we would have given you money and you would have bought a better car or house.
It's a nice thing to say, but he never gave her a penny, and she also paid the annual insurance premium, and took more than 400,000 yuan from her before and after.
There are also people who give all their wages to their families after working, but when they need money, they can't even get 2,500 euros, and they are reprimanded. There are also people who have to reconcile accounts after repaying the money, which is always chilling.
But when it comes to things, we can't just look at one side of the story. Some parents said that this girl really didn't understand anything. In her eyes, her parents who can't help her just don't love her, as if giving her money is a matter of course, and not giving her money is a big rebellion.
Then, mom thinks that birth and growth are enough. In her opinion, it is a contradiction between selfish people. One person doesn't want to give, and the other doesn't want to give back.
In this case, he also offers us a father's perspective, and in his opinion, raising a child is already not easy. All that is left to do now is to feed the children and continue to earn money for the family.
However, this is very uncertain. That's why parents are constantly verbalizing their love. Hopefully, this is to remind the child: I love you, I am your mother, and you are good to me.
This can also lay the foundation for future financial requirements. That's why so many parents only pay lip service to the promise and don't actually do anything.
At the end of the day, it's a selfish mindset. Everyone only thinks about themselves, does not consider each other, does not put themselves in each other's shoes, does not consider each other's difficulties, and is unwilling to be wronged on the original basis.
Author's message.
Tutoring is sometimes a very correct statement. If you come from a poor family, the same thing can happen at home. If the family is not good, the parent-child relationship is often not good.
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