"Know" mainly revolves around the feelings of the three generations of women in the Sheng family, telling their different destinies. In that era when women needed to live dependent on men, women's tragic experiences were always indispensable to the blessing of scumbags.
The scum in the play is very conspicuous Liang Liulang Liang Han, he is not only obsessed with drinking all day long, especially likes the kind of pretentious fox woman, but also a well-known loser, because he is not angry and motivated, his mother is heartbroken.
Compared with Liang Han, the little grandfather Qi Heng seems to have a good family background and good character, but in fact, in the relationship, he is more scum than Liang Han, Liang Han is a scum clearly, put the scum on the bright side, and those women who don't like men with this kind of character will naturally take the initiative to stay away.
Ke Qi Heng is gentle and elegant on the surface, considerate everywhere, affectionate and infatuated, but all this can't stop him from being a typical mom boy.
01 Listen to your mother in everything and have no opinions
Once, it happened to be the second day of the Lunar New Year, Qi Heng wanted to take the opportunity of the New Year's greetings to stay at the Sheng family for dinner, but his entourage reminded him that his mother told him to go back for dinner.
When Qi Heng heard this, he immediately changed his mind and said that he would leave and go home after a while, but he was really a good son. Even if the person is not by his mother's side, there will be an entourage to convey his mother's orders at all times, and he not only does not get angry or resist, but more importantly, he readily accepts it.
Although this is a small matter, it is enough to see that listening to his mother's arrangement in everything has long become Qi Heng's Xi, and he instinctively obeys and takes all this for granted.
02 Be timid and dare not resist
Qi Heng wanted to ask to marry Minglan and finally mustered up the courage to ask his mother to go to the Sheng family to propose marriage, but when the mother and son arrived at the Sheng family, their mother changed her mind and said that she wanted Qi Heng to recognize Minglan as her sister-in-law.
In the face of his mother's backlash and manipulation, Qi Heng dared to be angry and did not dare to speak, and recognized Minglan as his sister in front of everyone.
Before that, Qi Heng thought that he had persuaded his mother and sent his entourage to secretly report to Minglan. Minglan waited with anticrisy for him to propose, but waited for such an ending.
When Minglan saw Qi Heng's reaction on the spot, she understood that even if this man was so good, he couldn't be relied on after all. Nothing is worth mentioning in the face of the majesty of the mother.
Later, his entourage was caught by his mother because he cooperated with his appointment with Minglan and died violently, Qi Heng saw his personal entourage *** but was powerless to stop it.
Later, in the face of more threats of power, Qi Heng once again failed Minglan again, and as soon as he swore an alliance with Minglan on the front foot, he responded to the marriage arranged by the family on the back foot.
Gu Tingye really couldn't stand it, and kindly wanted to help, encouraging Qi Heng to stand up and fight for the person he loved like a man, but Qi Heng still chose to be silent and retreat.
Because in his heart, as long as his mother refuses to allow it, he will not dare to gamble with the fate of the family. Between his mother's expectations and Minglan's expectations, he still chose to follow his mother.
03 Break the contract at will without trust, and have a poor sense of responsibility
It is undeniable that Qi Heng loves Minglan very much, and he really wants to marry Minglan as his wife. But in the face of various obstacles on the road to love, every time it will shake Qi Heng's mind and make him look forward and backward. Any change will be a reason for him to give up Minglan .
The authorities relaxed and improved, and he went back to pursue Minglan again, and took it for granted that Minglan should stand where he was and wait for him.
I have to say that Qi Heng's style is really untrustworthy, what he says will change, and the promises he makes can't be counted, which can also be seen that Qi Heng only pays attention to his own feelings in the relationship, and there is no man's responsibility and responsibility at all.
04 Obstinate and unpersuadeur, very stubborn
From the very beginning, Minglan knew that she and Qi Heng were not from the same world, and they had no intention of clinging to it at all, but they just hid this love deep in their hearts, looked at it from a distance, and kept their distance from Qi Heng all the time, and rejected Qi Heng's confession again and again.
Minglan is sensible, she knows how much it costs the two of them to be together and what kind of tests they have to go through. She didn't want to add to the troubles for herself or her family, so she kept back.
Minglan also repeatedly carefully analyzed the pros and cons to Qi Heng, but Qi Heng, who was spoiled by his family and grew up, couldn't understand Minglan 's concerns at all, so he insisted on going his own way and continued to entangle very stubbornly.
He teased and swore again and again, disturbing Minglan 's judgment, making Minglan mistakenly think that he would do anything for himself, and then accepted his heart.
But as a result, everything was as Minglan expected, without blessing and affection, it could only end in a fiasco, which only increased the sadness.
05 I don't care about other people's feelings, and I am extremely immature
Later, Minglan married Gu Tingye, which made Qi Heng resentful of Gu Tingye. He thought that Gu Tingye had robbed Minglan of Minglan in an extreme way, and he was worried about it.
Qi Heng was named on the gold list of the imperial examination, and he was able to become a speech official, and above the court, he ignored the past feelings, and repeatedly ** Gu Tingye, giving him some trumped-up charges.
In fact, he knew in his heart that he was venting his personal anger, and he just couldn't see Gu Tingye and Minglan loving and harmonious.
He kept saying that it was for Minglan , but he only cared about his feelings and just wanted to vent his dissatisfaction in his heart, but he never considered Minglan 's situation.
Minglan is already Gu Tingye's wife, the world knows it, and there is no way to change it, and Gu Tingye knows the past of Qi Heng and Minglan again.
Qi Heng embarrassed Gu Tingye like this, but if Gu Tingye was unreasonable, he would transfer all this injustice and anger to Minglan , so Minglan would only have a harder life, and it would become a big joke.
Just like Minglan said, even if he was an official in the court, Qi Heng's actions were still like an immature child, very selfish.
Minglan and Qi Heng's emotional experience also tells us that he is not afraid of a scumbag like Liang Han, but he is afraid of a mother-in-law like Qi Heng, if a man always has a strong mother standing behind him, he still doesn't dare to speak out, he doesn't dare to breathe, and he obeys his mother's instructions. In the face of such a man, you must be cautious.