I've been told to be sensitive before, as if sensitive is a bad word, and I sometimes think, is it wrong to be sensitive?
I'm a very curious person, but I'm also a person with a lot of procrastination, so I haven't been able to understand what sensitivity is all about.
Hidden Valley Road" said that everyone has a gating system in their brains, and the biggest difference between those who have mental illness and normal people is in this place, when normal people are stimulated, the first time they may react very much, and the second time they will react smaller, while the mentally ill person reacts as much as the first time and the second time.
I think that highly sensitive people may be just as mentally ill as they are!Our gating system may also be very responsive to the second stimulus, but not as mentally ill as it is.
In the past, I always thought that sensitivity can be achieved through desensitization training, for example, the first time you are afraid of the interview, but the interview is too much, you can become eloquent, but the happiness list is not like that, she said that sensitivity is like the height of a person, and the day after tomorrow may be a little useful, but in general, it is still a problem of genes.
The more books I read, the more I seem to accept myself, and it's not my fault that I'm sensitive, I'm like that!It's the people who are at fault with me, if they give me enough security to dare to let go of my guard, and I don't have to be careful to figure it out and curry favor, do I need to worry about this and that?
I remember one time when I was under pressure I went to talk to a friend, so I told my friend, saying that my own worries, my caution, my grievances, but he told me that he thought I was sick, this friend was a person I admired very much, I was deeply shocked by what he said, and at the same time I didn't worship him so much, he didn't deserve it, and I didn't want to dissect my heart with him, my joys, sorrows, and fears, he was not a tolerant person at all.
The book says that we absorb and receive information all the time, but highly sensitive people receive much more information, and we always notice problems that others don't notice, and I can even smell menstruation on my roommates.
I always feel that my nose is too smart, I smell the fragrance of the sun on the sun-dried quilt and feel happy, but the trivia seems to say that it is just the smell of mites and the smell of ultraviolet rays, and it is not good to smell more, but I still like it, warm and dry, there is a very reassuring feeling.
The same is true for smelling the smell of the kitten, the smell of the kitten seems to be the smell of the sun, fragrant and smelly, especially the mouth of the piece, there is a kind of kitten smell, burying the head in it, there is also a feeling of reassurance.
I also like to smell the kitten's feet and feet, but I don't dare to smell more, and there is a person on the Internet who also likes to smell his feet, and then the lungs have a fungal infection, I don't want to do this.
I also like to pick at the kitten's feet, the curved and sharp little nails, the hard and soft pads, and the delicate fluff between the little paws and the pads, which I always enjoy.
The end result is that I am not desensitized to my own hypersensitivity, but because I keep rubbing the kitten's feet, it seems to be desensitized to nail clipping.
This kitten of mine is really smart, so smart, it was a little stray cat before, and it was picked up by my sister, and now it has bitten off three earphones.
Yesterday my sister went to take a bath, after taking a shower and wanted to play a game, but my sister's last earphone was also bitten off, my sister was so angry that she wanted to teach it a lesson, let it have a long memory, and my sister cut her hand.
The last time I bit my headphones, I was going to be angry, but I couldn't help it!What can I do if I am so angry that I can only be angry.