As we experience more and more things, our ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood will become stronger, and we will look back and feel that there is something ridiculous about our thoughts and actions.
Have you ever experienced any of the following in your life?
When I was a child, my partner broke my beloved toy, and I was uncomfortable for several days, always thinking about breaking off my friendship with him, drawing a line, and never interacting with him again.
When I was in school, I was isolated by my classmates, and there was always someone pointing fingers behind my back, which felt like a burden of thought, and I still couldn't let go of it after a few years.
When you first enter the workplace, you are full of joy, but you lack background experience, and you are deliberately embarrassed by your snobbish colleagues, and you want to leave.
When I was young, it was difficult for me to accept the unfriendliness of the world, and I would be entangled in my heart because of the words and deeds of others, but when I reached middle age, I would not only see the surface unfriendliness. Instead, it is more important to pay more attention to the awakening that it brings to you after it happens.
At this time, I will find that some people don't have to be angry, some things don't need to be taken care of at all, and some people are not worth your attention to me.
And facts have also proved that our perception of the world often needs to rely on these people and things that have made you sad, and it is precisely because of these things that you will continue to grow in crying. And in middle age, we have become indifferent to this, and even regard all this as a tempering of ourselves.
The open-mindedness is a pattern that is supported by grievances, and it is measured by tempering
If you and I have experienced smooth sailing and water, maybe one day in the unknown will plant a heel that is difficult to get up, but if we have ever seen the stormy waves and cultivated our skills, there is still a place in this world that you cannot reach.